I always feel worried about Cassie, she is fear to face any trouble. Anytime she met something that she don’t know how to do or she was not sure if she could do it well, she would be very negative and full of complain.I told many people about that,such as teachers ,colleagues and friends to asked for advices and suggestions . I told them how worried I was and discussed about the settlement.
But I just happened to find that I was the same to her.Once I met a trouble ,instead of think about how to deal with it, I feel nothing but deeply anxious or even anger. What is worse that I can’t control myself to explain the feeling at that moment...So how can I require my children to face troublesome with a positive attitude when I can’t do so.
Give yourself the same requirement or you shouldn’t be dissatisfied to your children.
