《Principles》Part two 4 Understand that people are wired very differently
4.1 Understand the power that comes from knowing how you and others are wired
It is not the difference between us but the difference ways of thinking leads to poor communication. Mental differences are physiological, that’s why science about brain important.
Relax, let the subconscious connect the conscious and tell you the ways, then exam the ideas with conscious to find whether they are valid.
Subconscious and conscious, feeling and thinking.
Practice how to make good dealing with the amygdala hijackings, make progress in life.
Good habits are those that get you to do what your “higher level you” wants.
4.4 Find out what you and others are like
a. Introverts get their energy from ideas, memories, and experiences, prefer to think privately,
Extroverts get their energy from being with people, love to talk out,
Obviously, I am an extrovert! H is an introvert.
b. Intuiting, big pictures, forests, context first, then details
Sensing, details, trees,
Maybe, I am a intuitive thinker.
c. Thinkings based on logical analysis of objective facts,
Feefling focus on the harmony between people.
So I am a feeling thinker. That’s why I a teacher, having a lot of fun with kids.
d. Planning like to live in a planned, orderly way, focus on a plan, inside out, what to do ,then do it,
Perceiving prefer flexibility and spontaneity, focus on what’s happening, and adapt to it. outside in, confused by the possibilities, see new things, change often
I am sure I am a perceiving person.
e. Creators refiners advancers executors flexors
I more likely to be a creator.
f. Focusing on tasks, how to achieve goals, similar intuitive, big picture, ready to change, reflect, suitable for creating new things, leaders
Focusing on goals, daily tasks, sensing, not change much, more reliable,
g. Work place personality inventory
H. Shapers
It is takes a lot of qualities to be shapers, just learn to be a shaper.
Nature made everything and everyone for a purpose.
4.5 Getting the right people in the right roles in support of your goal is the key to succeeding at whatever you choose to accomplish.
很惭愧，读了这么多年教育学、心理学，今天才彻底弄懂什么是“外向”、“内向”，“直觉型”，“感觉型”。之前一直思考自己到底是内向、还是外向，这次看了文中的仅仅一个段落，就判断出自己是外向型——因为有了判断的依据。这就是读原文的好处吧。但有趣的是，有的地方的理解会浅一些，读完即忘，这大概跟之前大量的应试阅读题目练习有关。Anyway，这次尝试打开了一扇新的大门，原来自己英文原版书籍阅读弯完全无障碍啊～～～～相比之下，雅思阅读，难多了去了。。。。。。
