最下面这段中英文是网课上老师要求学习的成长课视频内容,我反复看了很多遍,用语音输入法练习口语,把内容输出变成文字,并重新整理了原文我觉得不是很合适的字幕内容。
这段话的主要意思表达的是:你现在的点滴行动正在构建你的未来,所以想在未来得到什么,现在就要定好目标,每天进步一点点,不要太过情绪化,不要让恐惧占据心灵而阻碍自己的脚步,以前发生过什么事不重要,重要的是你接下来打算怎么做?
You can't connect the dots looking forward,you can only connect them looking backwards,so you have to trust that the dots somehow connect in your future.
或有有些人认为这是不实用的心灵鸡汤,但据我自己的经历,我知道这是真实有用的概括,确实,眼下的点滴行动并不能让人马上看到未来,但通过回顾却会发现点滴的行动在构建你的未来。
2012年我开始有记录地、持续地阅读和写作,因为以前的基础太差,2012、2013、2014年这三年都感觉不到明显的进步,身边也有一些朋友说读书无用,现在很少看读文章等等,让我多做一些实际的事情,多出去走走,我自己半信半疑,但实在找不到更好的方法,依然坚持阅读和写作。
经历过一段充满艰难与怀疑的积累之后,2015年我开始感觉到自己明显的提升,因为词汇量和见识的增加,谈吐变得丰富起来,不再那么害怕与人相处和交流,对事物的观察和思考能力也在变强,写过的书评出现了排在第一的记录,后来开通了微信公众账号,有些读者会偶尔给些金钱的赞赏,有些朋友开始向我咨询他们的人生困惑。
目前我对文字的把控能力,对学习和阅读材料的选择,对某些事情的见解和做法已经优于身边很多的朋友,得益于这些年的点滴行动和积累,也还需要未来的继续积累。
这周豆瓣上有编辑发邮件给我约书评,深圳本地的一个学习群群主问我是否愿意加入文案组。这些机会曾经是我梦寐以求的,也接过一些书评,但现在却被我拒绝了,我的时间不够用,我有其它更重要的事情要做。
我想要像提升阅读和写作能力一样去提升英语能力,我已经嚷着学习英语嚷了很多年了,但付出的时间和精力不多,一直拖延,现在还没有明显的进步。
我想要逐渐养成锻炼和健身的好习惯,每天进行一点点的运动,打好身体的基础,健康的身体是开展其它一切活动的前提。
我想要提升对数字的敏感度,了解简单数字背后复杂的事件关联,学习金融理财知识,让工作做得更好,财务状况更进一步,生活变得更容易和开心。
还想去考驾照和提升摄影水平,时间和精力有限,这些要往后排一排。
我已经有了一些实战的经验:阅读和写作的积累已经让我有了明显的收获;对内在和外在的同时关注和投入,让我的个人形象比以前有了明显的提升;坚持12点前睡觉,7点前起床,让我逐渐懂得平衡休息和投入行动的重要;几乎不点外卖,好好照顾自己。
我知道这些实战的经验还远远不够,有时候还是会懈怠,有时候还是会情绪化,把实现梦想的行动一再推迟,一周、三个月、半年等等。
这一段带有总结性的话刚好可以用来做我的警醒,让我更清楚地明白现在的点滴行动正在构建我的未来,我会面临困难和挑战,但不要因此而停止,未来会看到答案。
You can't connect the dots looking forward
你无法通过点滴行动去展望未来
You can only connect them looking backwards
你只能通过回顾才能看见它们的关联
So you have to trust that the dots somehow connect in your future
因此你必须相信点滴行动在未来总会以某种方式串联起来
You have to trust in something
你必须始终持有信念
Your gut, destiny, life, karma, whatever
不管那是你的胆识,命运,人生,还是因果报应
Because believing that the dots will connect down the road
因为坚信点滴行动连接人生道路
Will give you the confidence to follow your heart
这会给你自信按你的心意走下去
Even when it leads you off the well worn path
即使它引导你走不寻常的道路
And that will make all the difference
那会使你与众不同
Your time is limited
你的生命有限
So don't waste it living in someone else's life
所以不要浪费你的时间活在别人的生活里
Don't be trapped by dogma
不要被教条所拘束
Which is living with the result of other people's thinking
不要活在别人对你的期望中
Don't let the noise of other's opinions drown out your own inner voice
不要让他人的噪音抹去你自己内心的声音
You've got to find what you love
你必须找到你所热爱的东西
And that is true for your work as it is for your lovers
包括你所热爱的事业和伴侣
Your work is going to fill a large part of your life
事业将占据你的大半生
and the only way to be truly satisfied is to do what you believe is great work
唯有当你相信你所做的工作是对的,你才能发自内心地获得满足
And the only way to do great work is to love what you do
而唯有热爱你所做的事,才能成就不凡
If you haven't found it yet, keep looking
如果你还没有找到,继续寻找
and don't settle
别追求安逸
Have the courage to follow your heart and intuition
有勇气跟随自己的内心和直觉
They somehow already know what you truely want to become
它们早就知道你想成为什么样的人
You gonna have some ups and you're going to have some downs
你不可能一帆风顺,一定有起有落
Most people give up on themselves easily
大多数人都会轻易放弃
You know the human spirit is powerful ?
但你知道人的意志有多强大吗?
There is nothing as powerful-it is hard to kill the human spirit
人的意志是无可比拟,坚韧不屈的
Anybody can feel good when they have health, their bills are paid, they have happy relationships
任何人在身体健康,财务充足,关系美满时都能感到幸福
Anybody can be positive then
那么人人都可以乐观积极
Anybody can have a large vision then
然后人人都可以有宏大的理想
Anybody can have faith under those kinds of circumstance
在这种环境下,任何人都可以拥有信念
The real challenge of growth
成长面临的真正挑战
mentally, emotionally and spiritually
精神,情感和心灵
Comes when you get knocked down
来自你被击倒的时候
It takes courage to act
重新行动需要勇气
Part of being hungry when you have been defeated
已经被击倒还是渴望得到
It takes courage to start over again
重新开始需要勇气
Fear kills dreams
恐惧,扼杀梦想。
Fear kills hope
恐惧,扼杀希望。
Fear...put people in the hospital
恐惧,能使人一蹶不振
Fear can age you
恐惧,使你衰老
Can hold you back from doing something that you know within yourself that you are capable of doing
恐惧能够阻止你去做你本应能做到的事
But it will paralyze you
它会使你麻木不仁
At the end of your feeling is nothing
你的情绪结束后,一无所获
But at the end of every principle is a promise
但在每个原则背后,是对自我的承诺
Behind your little feelings, it might not be absolutely nothing at the end of your little feelings
在你的小情绪背后,可能并不是什么都没有
But behind every principle is a promise
但在每个原则背后,是对自我的承诺
And some of you in your life
你们有些人
The reason why you are not at your goal right now ,cause you just all about your feelings
至今碌碌无为,只是因为你们太过于情绪化
All of your feelings, you don't feel like waking up -so who does?
你总是被情绪所主导,早上不想起床,谁想呢?
Everyday you say 'no' to your dreams
每天你不愿去面对你的梦想
You might be pushing your dreams back a whole six months,a whole year?
你也许会把目标延后六个月,或是一年?
That one single day, that one day you didn't get up could have pushed your stuff back, I don't know how long
只是一天,只是你没有起床鞭策自己的那一天,我不知道你已经后退了多少
Don't allow your emotions to control you
别让你的情感控制你
We are emotional, but what you want to begin to discipline your emotion
我们是情感动物,但你必须控制你的情感
If you don't discipline and contain your emotion, they will use you
你若无法控制它,它们便会将你吞噬
You want it and you are going to go all out to have it
你想实现你的梦想,全力以赴,毫无保留
It's not going to be easy, when you want to change , it's not easy
当你尝试改变的时候,不会很容易
If it were in fact easy, everybody would do it
如果很容易,那人人就可以做到。
But if you are serious, you'll go all out
但你若认真对待,全力以赴
I'm in control here
我才是自己的主宰者
I'm not going to let this get me down,I'm not going to let this destroy me
我绝不会让这些事情打击我,摧毁我
I'm coming back
我会从头开始
And I'll be stronger and better because of it
我要因梦想变得更好,更坚强
You have got to make a declaration
你必须做出这样的声明
That this is what you stand for, you are standing up for your dreams, you're standing up for peace of mind, you are standing up for health
那就是你的奋斗目标,你正在为你的梦想,自由和健康站台
Take full responsibility of your life
请对你的人生负全部的责任
Accept where you are and the responsibility you are doing to take yourself where you want to go
接受现在的自己,并把坚信自己能做得更好当做一种责任
You can decide that I am going to live each day as if it was my last
你可以选择把你的每一天都当作最后一天来过
Live your life with passion
活出你的热情
With some drive
拿出你的魄力
Decide that you are going to push yourself
不断鞭策自己做得更好
The last chapter to your life has not been written yet
你人生的最后一章还未写下
and it doesn't matter about what happened yesterday
昨日的种种事情并不重要
It doesn't matter about what happened to you , what matter is: 'but are you going to do about it ?'
曾经发生过什么不重要,重要的是,你接下来打算怎么做?
This year I will make this goal become a reality
今年我要使梦想成真
I won't talk about it anymore
我不想再过多谈论什么
I can, I can!! I can!!!
我行,我行,我能行
To persevere I think it is important for everybody
我觉得坚持对每个人都很重要
Don't give up ,don't give in
不要放弃,不要妥协
There is always an answer to everything
人生的每一件事总会得到答案