Everyone had a difficult situation. I have one now.

My sun is 3 years old now, and I want to stay with my sun now, but I don't know if I should go back to my hometown or I should bring my sun to BeiJing.

If I go back to Xi'An , My wife and I  must quit our current job , but I'm not sure if we could find a suitable at Xi'an and definitely  our salary will be lower than now. However , If I bring my sun to BeiJing,my wife must quit her job and to be a housewife.It is unfair for my wife ,if she just stay home to take care the child and she will be isolated from social. and we will have to go back to Xi'an  3 years later ,because my sun is going to thePrimary school when he is 6 years old.

I feel clueless whenI think about this everytime. I sent my resume to a company of Xi'An last month , and the next day , the Hr of the companyinvited me to join a interview at next month. I promise to join the interview on time, but when the time is coming,I finded a silly excuse that I am not able to go back Xi'An now duo to train ticket is hard to get.

What should I do ? I am no idea. The only thing I know is I must quickly decide what I should to do .