在充实和快乐中结束了为期三天的future mapping 课程,收获了很多好伙伴,充实富足。石森老师总是有一种很强的能量场,看见她,和她在一起就觉得浑身充满了力量,似乎能清晰的感受到能量的传递。
从未来视角解决问题的工具
Future mapping 是从未来视角处理现在问题的一个工具,通过未来视角,让自己处于一个成功、幸福、喜悦也就是120%的幸福状态,通过你的潜意识去提醒你现在的自己做什么,有哪些是你存在的天赋资源而你自己没有意识到,哪些是你真正的课题,哪些又是真正课题衍生出来的课题。通过future mapping 为客户者提供问题解决方案,告诉客户如何更好的去解决自己的问题,并看到那些没有意识到的盲点,跳出原有的思维框架来解决问题。以未来视角解决问题,在很多书里都提到过,但是如何真的去实践,future mapping提供了一个具体可实施的路径。
我学到了解决问题的方式和路径,以及给予、祝福别人,帮助别人解决问题,做行动方案。既为了能帮助别人开心,又出现了新的我可以做的方向,可以做的事情又多了一件,要做好教练职责,作为学过未来蓝图的人,一定要做当好教练。
想象要狂野,预言要自证
在学FM之前,从来不知道人生还有这么多可能性,可以如此的不给自己设限。想写这部分内容的时候,突然冒出了王潇的这句话,发现这简直就是FM的诠释。
先讲一个故事。石森老师有个朋友,普通的工薪阶层,坐飞机的时候因为一些问题把她的经济舱升级成了商务舱。她很开心的就去了,飞行途中,遇见旁边坐着的美国人不舒服,她们语言不通,不知道怎么安慰对方,就用手拍拍对方的背部来安慰,之后也没在意。下车之后看见了一辆豪车,非常惊讶,惊叹是谁的。那位男士便过来说这是他的,并邀请她一起坐车去吃饭,之后在吃饭的时候求了婚,说从来没见过这样善意的女孩子。之后这位女孩就加入了豪门。
这个事情的发展超乎想象,但是仔细想想又非常合理。如果女孩子没有传达善意并且不求回报,那么就不会有这样意外的收获。FM有三个原则,过去的就过去了,不必深究原因;从未来的视角看现在,画出实现的路径;你想要的是什么,给出去。给出去的时候不要期待回报,因为期待是得失心,是利益关系,不是给予。
在FM中想象力很重要,你可以天马行空的想象,随心所欲的编故事,这些就是你的潜意识,也或许是你的盲点,而你自己并没有发现,通过这些故事找到解决问题的路径和思路,制定出对自己来说切实可行的方案。
设定目的和课题的时候,不能受限于自己的想象,而是真正让你觉得百分百幸福的事情,不要怕实现不了而不敢设置课题,尽情的发挥你的想象,感想敢做,就是未来的样子,也是你现在的频率。
上课的过程中,不仅学到了知识,还增长了见识,发现生活还可以这样,给出一个高的视角来看待问题。
英文篇
Not only to learn knowledge, but also to increase vision
I finished the three-day future mapping course in full and happy, and gained a lot of good partners and enriched myself. Senei Shisen has a strong energy field. when I was being with she,I feels full of power . It seems that she can clearly feel the transmission of energy.
A tool for solving problems from a future perspective
The Future mapping is a tool of dealing with the problem now from Future perspective. Through the perspective of the Future, we are in a 120% happiness state of successful,happiness and joy. Through your subconscious mind to remind you of what you're doing now, what is your talent resources and you don't realize that what is your real topic, what is the real subject derived.Through future mapping, we can provide solutions to clients' problems, tell them how to solve their problems better, and see the blind spots that they do not realize, so we can jump out of the original thinking frame to solve problems. Solving problems from the perspective of future has been mentioned in many books, but future mapping provides a concrete and feasible path to practice.
I learned how to solve problems, how to give and bless others, how to help others solve problems, and how to take action. In order to help others to be happy, there is a new direction and more things I can do. As a person who has learned the FM, It must be a good coach.
Think wild, prophesy self - evident
Before learning FM, I never knew that there were so many possibilities in life, so I did not set limits on myself. When I wanted to write this part of the content, this sentence suddenly appeared which is speaked by wangxiao, and found that this is the interpretation of FM.
Start with a story. Sensei had a friend, an ordinary working-class woman, who had upgraded her economy class to business class because of problems flying. She was so happy that she went there. During the flight, she met the americans sitting next to her, who were not comfortable. They did not know the language with each other ,so she clap her hands on his backs for comfort .After getting off the flight ,she saw a luxury car,and wonder the car owener. The man said it was his, invited her to ride with him to dinner, and then proposed during the meal, saying he had never seen such kind girls.Asked her to marry him . The girl then joined the rich and powerful.
This is going on beyond imagination, but it makes perfect sense to think about it. If a girl doesn't show kindness and expect nothing in return, there won't be such unexpected gains. FM has three principles. The past is gone. From the perspective of the future to the present, draw the path of implementation; What do you want? Get out. Do not expect the return when you give out, because expectation is the heart gain and loss, is the interest relationship, is not to give.