Have you ever been surprised by an INTJ's thought among your friends and colleagues? INTJ is one type of our personalities, as the rarest type, they always see the world from a singular direction and are often misunderstood by the mainstream viewpoint.Although they are called "loner", you still can't deny their individual personality just like a gold hidden in the sand.
"Introverted, intuitive, thinking, judgment",that is what INTJ means. I guess you will never plan to make a friend with a person like this. Yes, you can hardly find any attractive things on them when you meet them at the first time,but I think all of the INTJs are not famous by their first impression. They will never spend their time and energy on the things they think it's insignificant , so don't think INTJs don't know what they should do at the right time, they know but they won't.
INTJs have their own overall view and clear goal about all the things they are doing, they often think something beyond their position, they clearly know what they truly want and will design a short-term long-term plan for this. Anything which probably is contradictory with their viewpoints and values won't be compromised by them forever even though they know this will make them be prejudiced for a long time.
If you like hot party if you think business dinner is indispensable if you enjoy people admire you, you'd better find someone else. In INTJs' opinion,social intercourse is wasting time more or less, they'd prefer to enjoy their own world rather than spending time on worthless intercourse.However, INTJs have their own social intercourse,but it's with their real friends,someone they can share their minds and can have a deep understanding each other.
Although INTJs have so many non mainstream viewpoints, it doesn't mean they have nothing to be admired, INTJs always concentrate one thing until it can be finished as their wish, the precondition is they think this thing is worth their efforts, they will show you a surprise silently in the field of their work, in their family, at the anytime of their lifetime, they probably won't do these things for someone's admiration, they do it is just for themselves.
I think each personality has it's platform to show their value,any prejudice for one personality is a narrow behavior. INTJ is not a freak , rarity is not equal to "false", you will find a shining star in the night sky as long as you have a high quality telescope.
I am an INTJ. I write for myself. Embrace our "world" and keep the gossip blowing in the wind.
