“Let your past inform your future, but don’t let it define your future. ”

The trick that we can do to get over this is to replace I can’t with I don’t. Because I don’t is much more a personal lifestyle, identity type decision rather than an external forces type decision. Life if I say, “I don’t eat unhealthy meals. ” I am reinforcing to myself that I am a healthy person, therefore, I don’t eat unhealthy meals. If I say, I don’t drink. That is reinforcing that this is my identity. How we can turn out process driven mindset to become serial achievers. The conventional wisdom is that we should try and be specialized and get like really good at like one thing. And that tends to be what most traditional metrics of like success, and accomplishment are defined by, like how good can you be in one specific field. But we should instead be thinking like generalists, rather than specialists.