Being a man is really hard to do

Life is really hard to do, get married for nearly a year, why he is not listening, so he does not play the game, he played, spent a lot of money, the results of his relatives but I always let him go home, the results can not make money. The birth of a son for almost two months, he is not willing to buy something to his son, are willing to spend money on a game, I really do not understand his original to I gave birth to the child, I to him very sad, I really do not know me and he's in the future will be like！