There is a saying in China: good word, bad heard. But it's not true in Toastmasters.
Those conversation which starts with this is for your own sake, don't take this wrong way always end with hurting someone's feeling. And I was wondering if that is not the wrong way, what the fucking right way is?
Just this weekend, I had two impressive conversations.
On Sunday morning. A friend called me and we talked about some plans we should make. He also gave me some advices about myself. Advices that helps a lot to improve myself, to grow.
God I just wanna say those whose who have a high EQ always make the sweet words and always make people comfortable. And you are going to enjoy having a conversation with them.
Another one is for job. I ask someone who did a good job in this industry for advice. And all I got is: you don't...you can't...you are no... And I almost said you shut up, bitch. However I replied gently. Because I know I know I am not that kind of person.
Take this as example why communication skill matters. And we can alway make it a better way even for someone's own good. Don't take that as an excuse to hurt people.
