I always tend to talk something private or intimate at late night.
When the conversation was going on, the outlooks of each other mingled in the air. Whether it is conflict or compromise, there are surely some enforcements or changements for ourselves. Maybe after that we will make a little bit or huge adjustment for the better future life.
That friend that night in some ways deeply inpressed me, especially about the relationship between family, friends and future plans. That is special for her open-mindedness.
We all believe we are new generation compared with our parents or grandparents. We are totally different with them, including their viewpoints, thoughts, and outlooks of the individual values. We are better educated, if not, more open at least, as the outside world changes so fast every day.
That is why we often have arguments with our parents about some key issues and always can not understand each other.
So, in her opinion, if something that we think is right or needs to be accepted, we need to insist to support it regardless of their families' or friends' oppositions.
She stressed we young generation should stand out to be the first generation to do the right thing and set the updatingly right examples for the next generation, for the sake of a better society in the future.
For me, it is a little violent or aggressive for others, especially posing a great threat to our parents to accept something discrepant. There should be a mild or moderate way to negotiate the conflict for the neutralization.
The effective talk is indispensible. For the mutual shares and interests, we need to gradually get the equal understanding when taking the different growing background into consideration. Then we hope to get that peaceful point with non-conflict.
