当你选专业时,明明喜欢的是文科,但是面对理科的好就业,如何选择?在工作后,虽然工作待遇还行,但烧脑又繁琐,并不是自己喜欢的工作,面对年龄逐渐增加,越来越焦虑,担心自己一辈子都只能做不喜欢的事情,跳槽又会带来工资下降,工作不稳定,说不定兜兜转转又回到起点,那应该选择跳槽抓紧时间寻找自己热爱的事业,还是选择继续坚持?
那么是选择:应该做还是喜欢做?我自己也遇到过很多次这样的选择,既选择过应该做,也选择过喜欢做,但后来都让我痛苦,于是现在做出反思:两者并不是对立的,要喜欢应该做的事情。选择应该做的,并尝试从中找出乐趣,毫无乐趣就应尽早放弃。
每年高考参加学科竞赛的人数不少,他们放弃假日、娱乐、参加课外补习,向往高工资而选择学习计算机的人也越来越多,我认为他们选择了应该做。学科竞赛能给高考加分,计算机能带来高收入,但他们花费大量时间精力去做一件自己可能永远无法找到乐趣的事情,不知道等他们回头看时,是否会为自己浪费的时间而后悔。
丘吉尔有篇文章谈到了对工作与兴趣爱好的见解,如下:
“一个人要想真正感到幸福和平安,至少应有两三种爱好,而且都比较实际。到了晚年才开始说:“我会对这个或那个产生兴趣”,已没有用了。这种愿望只能加剧精神紧张。一个人可能会获得与其日常工作无关的某些课题的渊博知识,而没有从中得到什么实益或宽慰。干你所喜欢的事是没有用的,你得喜欢你所干的事。泛泛地说,人可以分为3类:劳累至死的人、忧虑至死的人、无聊至死的人。对于流汗出力干了一周苦活的体力劳动者来说,让他们在星期六下午再踢足球或打垒球是不合适的;同样,对于为严肃的公务操劳或烦恼了6天的政界人士、专业人员、商人来说,在周末再让他们为琐事而动脑子和忧虑也是无益的。”
原文:
To be really happy and really safe, one ought to have at least two or three hobbies, and they must all be real. It is no use starting late in life to say: 'I will take an interest in this or that.' Such an attempt only aggravates the strain of mental effort. A man may acquire great knowledge of topics unconnected with his daily work, and yet get hardly any benefit or relief. It is no use doing what you like; you have got to like what you do. Broadly speaking, human beings may be divided into three classes: those who are toiled to death, those who are worried to death, and those who are bored to death. It is no use offering the manual labourer, tired out with a hard week's sweat and effort, the chance of playing a game of football or baseball on Saturday afternoon. It is no use inviting the politician or the professional or business man, who has been working or worrying about serious things for six days, to work or worry about trifling things at the weekend.