首先，你不必焦虑，不必慌张，因为这种负面情绪并不能帮助你改变现状。
其次，你要给自己定一个计划或者目标。列一个表格，把你现在能做的事情和想要做的事情都写下来，评估一下自己的知识和能力，到底能做哪些工作。能力达不到时，就静下心来学习。根据自己的能力和特长，把自己的才能发挥出来，找到适合自己的工作，只要努力奋斗，勤奋不懒惰，有朝一日肯定能得到自己想要的东西，过上自己想要的生活的。
最后一首前段时间挺火的小诗送个你，共勉！
每个人都走在自己的时区上
纽约时间比加州时间早三个小时，
New York is 3 hours ahead of California,
但加州时间并没有变慢。
but it does not make California slow.
有人22岁就毕业了，
Someone graduated at the age of 22,
但等了五年才找到好的工作！
but waited 5 years before securing a good job!
有人25岁就当上CEO，
Someone became a CEO at 25,
却在50岁去世。
and died at 50.
也有人迟到50岁才当上CEO，
While another became a CEO at 50,
然后活到90岁。
and lived to 90 years.
有人依然单身，
Someone is still single,
同时也有人已婚。
while someone else got married.
奥巴马55岁就退休，
Obama retires at 55,
川普70岁才开始当总统。
but Trump starts at 70.
世上每个人本来就有自己的发展时区。
Absolutely everyone in this world works based on their Time Zone.
身边有些人看似走在你前面，
People around you might seem to go ahead of you,
也有人看似走在你后面。
some might seem to be behind you.
但其实每个人在自己的时区有自己的步程。
But everyone is running their own RACE, in their own TIME.
不用嫉妒或嘲笑他们。
Don’t envy them or mock them.
他们都在自己的时区里，你也是！
They are in their TIME ZONE, and you are in yours!
生命就是等待正确的行动时机。
Life is about waiting for the right moment to act.
所以，放轻松。
So, RELAX
