每个人都怀揣梦想,这是一个人保持斗志的根本原因,如果没有这些东西,这对一个发展中的人是极其不利的,会使他陷入无时无刻的怀疑当中,是非常可怕的。然而,对于那些过于宏大的梦想,有的大到甚至要改变世界,改变国家,我并不是不赞成有这种想法,但是,在有这些打算之前,我们应该去怎么着手呢?我们可以从中外两个例子吸取经验教训,从改变自己做起,然后去实现更远大的事业。
一、国外
When I was young and free and my imagination had no limits, I dreamed of changing the world. As i grew older and wiser, I discovered the world would not change,so I shortened my sights somewhat and decided to change only my country.But it, too, seemed immovable.As I grew into my twilight years, in one last desperate attempt, I settled for changing only my family, those closest to me, but alas, they would have none of it.And now as I lie on my deathbed, I suddenly realize: If I had only changed my self first, then by example I would have changed my family.From their inspiration and encouragement, I would then have been able to better my country and, who knows, I may have even changed the world.
少年时,意气风发,踌躇满志,当时曾梦想改变世界。但随着我年事渐长,阅历增多,却发现自己无力改变世界。于是,我缩小了范围,决定先改变我的国家,可这个目标还是太大。接着我步入暮年,无奈之余,我将试图改变的对象锁定在最亲密的家人身上。但天不遂人愿,他们个个还是维持原样。现在当我垂垂老矣之时,终于顿悟:我应该先改变自己,用以身作则的方式影响家人。若我能先当家人的榜样,也许下一步就能改善我的国家,再以后,我甚至可能改造整个世界。
二、国内
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《礼记·大学》:“古之欲明明德于天下者,先治其国;欲治其国者,先齐其家;欲齐其家者,先修其身;欲修其身者,先正其心;欲正其心者,先诚其意;欲诚其意者,先致其知,致知在格物。物格而后知至,知至而后意诚,意诚而后心正,心正而后身修,身修而后家齐,家齐而后国治,国治而后天下平。”物格而后知至的译文为通过降低自己的欲望,减少自己的贪念,来让自己头脑清醒,是非曲直分明。正念分明后就要努力在待人处事的各方面做到真诚二字,努力断恶修善,久而久之自己的修养就起来了,有智慧了。这时就可以把自己的家庭经营好了。家庭是国家的缩影,把自己家庭的经营好了的人也一定可以把国家治理好。一个能把自己国家治理好的人,那么他(她)也一定能让世界充满和谐,天下太平。