如何在幸福的婚姻里，继续维持自我的独立性？
把和自己朋友、而不是家庭朋友的聚会，排在很靠前的优先级；
保持自己有一些爱好，并因为这些爱好结交一些朋友；
让自己思维保持活跃。对新生事物要有好奇心；
坚持健身，积极管理自己的健康；
可能的话，尽量保持财务独立。
How do you maintain your independence in a happy marriage?
Prioritize gatherings with your friends, not family friends.
Keep your hobbies and make some friends because of them.
Keep your mind active. Be curious about new things.
Stick to fitness and actively manage your health.
Try to be financially independent if possible.
