What a coincidence that I reconnected with my ex-girl friend in Chinese New Year. It has been about three years since the last time we saw each other and had a conversation.

I always feel awkward when talking to someone used to date. But turns out, we are fine.

Maybe it is because of time. When time flies by, we both become much more mature. 

What means you grow up? I reckon it's about how much you care about others. When talking, do you want to dig things from one's heart? Do you interested about one's story? Not just slight over the conversations. 

What makes you become a thoughtful person? Oh yes, it's so complicated! However, observe a man's movement  is the first step to be thoughtful. You need to understand what he's going to do. 

How? Talk. About what? Whatever makes our life beautiful~