曾經看過一個文章。是一個在重病病房當了大半輩子的醫護寫的。她發現在去世前,這些重病患者有著類似的悔恨。
1. I wish I'd had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me.
2. I wish I did not work so hard.
3. I wish I'd had the courage to express my feelings.
4. I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends.
5. I wish that I had let myself be happier.
其實不用到臨死前,我們也可以多想想。正視死亡,才能更真實的活著。不用歧視朝菌不知晦朔,蟪蛄不知春秋。在漫長的歲月里,我們自己的生命也並不算長。