Can an ex still be a friend after a breakup
前任能不能做朋友，这是个一直大家在讨论的话题,有些人觉得 前任分手以后还可以成为朋友，毕竟两个人经历了美好的时光，也算是自己生命中的一部分，没什么大不了的；有些人觉得既然分手了，就没有做朋友，甚至见面的必要了，会影响彼此的情绪，让人更难过
Whether the former can be friends or not is a topic that has been discussed all the time, Some people think that their ex can still be friends after they break up. After all, it's no big deal that two people have had a good time, which is also a part of their lives. Some people think that since they break up, they have no need to be friends or even meet each other, which will affect their emotions and make people more sad
这个问题很难回答，能不能做朋友还是看个人的意愿，并且看分手的原因。我也见过有一部分人分手后也成为很好的朋友，很难能可贵，这种情况我觉得他们在一起的时候只是抱着玩一玩的心态，也没有太喜欢对方，没有伤害太深，感情也不是特别深，这样的两个人呢，想的都比较开，也不会觉得尴尬，对于这样的人分手后做朋友还是可以的
It's hard to answer this question. Whether you can be a friend or not depends on your will and the reason for breaking up. I have also seen some people become good friends after breaking up, which is very rare. In this case, I think they just hold the mentality of playing together, don't like each other too much, don't hurt too much, and don't have deep feelings. For such two people, what they think is relatively open, and don't feel embarrassed. It's OK to be friends after such people break up Yes
但是对另外一部分人来讲是很难成为朋友的.那就是因为一方出轨的，见面也没什么必要了
But it's hard for other people to be friends. That's because one of them has cheated and there's no need to meet each other
还有一种情况就是彼此深爱过，因为彼此都没了感觉，正常分手的，是很难成为朋友的，因为毕竟在一起的时候付出了真爱，分手后见到对方只会增加难过的回忆，和满满的尴尬，这种情况是很难成为朋友了
Another situation is that we have loved each other deeply, because we have no feelings. It's hard to be friends if we break up normally, because after all, we give our true love when we are together. Seeing each other after breaking up will only add sad memories and full of embarrassment. This situation is hard to be friends
还需要考虑的是现任的感受，我们看到过许多情侣因为发现对方和前任联系而大吵大闹，发脾气，最后还因为这个分手的.其实如果分手后都有了现任，那么站在为对方负责人的立场，还是不要做朋友联系了，因为既然分手了，就成为了过客，没事自己想想还可以，就让他成为历史吧
What needs to be considered is the current feeling. We have seen many couples quarrel and lose their temper because they found that the other party is in contact with their predecessors, and finally they break up because of this. In fact, if they have current positions after breaking up, they should not be friends because they become passers-by when they break up and think about it, Let him be history
其实分手后能不能做朋友，很重要的一个因素是两个人的情感状态是什么？
In fact, whether or not you can be friends after breaking up is a very important factor. What is the emotional state of the two?
如果两个人都是单身，做个朋友也没有什么关系，抛开爱情，前任毕竟曾与你有过一段时间的交往，多一个熟悉又爱护自己的朋友，也没那么坏, 不是所有的分手都是主观的想要去伤害对方。所以，如果可以回到朋友的身份，也未尝不是一件好事情
If both of them are single, it doesn't matter to be friends. Forget love. After all, your ex has had a relationship with you for a while. It's not so bad to have a friend who is familiar with you and loves you. Not all breakups are subjective to hurt each other. So, if you can return to your friend's identity, it's not a bad thing
如果两个人其中一方有伴侣，是否还能做朋友，需要慎重对待，因为要考虑另一半的感受，与其怀念前任，不如找个现任
If one of the two people has a partner, whether they can still be friends or not needs to be treated with caution, because to consider the feelings of the other half, it is better to find a current one than to miss the former one
