When we were young, we always longed for excitement and sought support in the crowd. It was not until later that I realized that truly powerful people do not seek meaning and value in life elsewhere, but become a better version of themselves in solitude.
People who know how to make use of their alone time are often more likely to gain something, because many things need to be achieved through solitude. For example, reading and exercising, these eternal ways of appreciation, are all steps and shortcuts for a person to move forward in solitude.
The more outstanding a person is, the more they can enrich themselves and constantly grow in the process of solitude. Learn to improve in the days when no one is interested, and accumulate strength in the silent time. You will gradually discover unexpected changes in yourself and quietly achieve a comeback.
年轻时,我们总是向往热闹,渴望在人群中找到依靠。直到后来才明白,真正厉害的人,不会从别处找寻人生的意义和价值,而是在独处中成为更好的自己。
懂得利用独处时光的人,往往更容易有所收获,因为很多东西都需要靠独处去成就。比如读书和运动,这些永恒的增值方式,都是在独处中成为一个人前进的阶梯和捷径。
越出众的人,越能在独处的过程中丰盈自己、不断成长。学会在无人问津的日子里去精进,在缄默的时光里去蓄力,你会慢慢在自己身上发现意想不到的变化,悄悄实现逆袭。