Praise is more likely to seem disingenuous if it is highly effusive , so be careful not to gush too much.
夸人如果太热情的话会看起来会显得不真诚，所以我们夸人时要小心别太夸张。
Praise for hard work, persistence, use of good strategies, and determination reinforce
s the idea that these are the key ingredients for success and makes the recipient more
resilient in the face of difficulty.
夸人工作努力，坚持不懈，是个好策略，这会加强人们对这些成功的关键因素的印象，同时让人在面对困难更加坚韧。
The important thing to remember is to avoid giving ability praise in isolation—it’s okay to tell someone that they are talented, so long as you also praise the hard work and strategy use that is required in order to make use of that talent
切忌单独夸人的有才，夸人有才没错，只要你同时夸人努力工作和策略使用都挺有才的。
When praise emphasizes comparisons, we become self-conscious and worried about continuing to prove ourselves, and that can actually interfere with our future achievement.
当夸奖强调比较时，我们会变得不自然而且总想着继续证明自己，这会影响我们将来的成就。
Keep your praise focused on the task itself, and try to be “autonomy-supportive” by
acknowledging the recipient’s feelings and choices.
让你的夸奖集中在任务本身，而且通过承认别人的感觉和选择保持别人的自主感。
