Doing what you want without asking for others advice. When you have enough strength, you can decide to do it or not.

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We often need to ask for help in our life, it's normal.
However there are some people, they got in the habit of asking for advice. They need a people who can tell them what to eat at lunch, or whether they need to do the thing that they dreamed of.

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They have no independent opinions. What they did were all had been arrenged. I can't understand this kind of life belongs to themselves or others?

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If you want to have a pretty life, you must be the master of yourself, and know what you want.