the point that i am trying to make is that i am the most unpleasant,rude,ignorant and all-round obnoxious asshole that anyone could possilbly have the misfortune to meet.
i am dismissive of the virtuous,unawear of beautiful and uncomprehending in the face of the happy.so if i didnt understand i was being asked to be the best man,it is i never expected to be anybody's best friend.and certainly not the best friend of the bravest and kindest and wisest human being i have ever had the good fortune of knowing.
john i am a ridiculous man,redeemed only by the warmth and constancy of your friendship.
mary when i say u deserve this man,it is the highest compliment of which i am capable.
john you have endured war and injury and tragic loss,so know this,today you sit between the women you have made your wife and the man you have saved.
in short,the two people who love you most in all this world
we will never let you down and we have a life time ahead to prove that.
