生性凉的人是对自己负责。明确哪些是自己的责任，哪些是别人的责任，不逾矩，亦不将就。

《都挺好》这部电视剧里女主角苏明玉因小时候因父母重男轻女家庭因素，敢于和家庭绝掰。步入社会后，她懂得了什么都要靠自己，不喜欢麻烦别人，也不喜被别人麻烦。因为知道总是麻烦别人，即便是最亲最亲的人，也是有界限的。

有一天，她正在街上发传单。遇到了自己的贵人，她敢于向贵人毛遂自荐，并做出了实际行动。在这条事业之路上为贵人创造出了不少价值。

为什么她可以得到贵人赏识，并得到机会后创造出这样的价值？？就是因为她不服输，什么都靠自己去争取。遇到事情不慌不忙有自己的人情事故处理方法，不管任何事物懂得靠自己去获取。有自己的明确目标规划及行动。

生性凉薄其实倒不如说是看的太透，能够理解到这一辈子并没有任何人能够真正的一直陪伴，所以也就对身边人释然，不麻烦也不去索取帮助，因为他们懂得毕竟能够陪伴自己的人也就只有自己。凉薄是一种性格，是一种态度，是一种为人处事的基调。凉薄的人奉行那种冷眼看世界的方式方法。

人生建议，做一个生性凉薄的人。

A cool person is responsible for himself. Know what is your responsibility and what is the responsibility of others.

"All very well" in this TV series heroine su mingyu because of the childhood because of the parents of son preference family factors, dare to break off with the family. After entering the society, she learned that everything should be on their own, do not like to trouble others, also do not like to be troubled by others. Because I know that I always bother others, even the dearest and dearest people have their limits.

One day, she was handing out leaflets in the street. Met their noble, she dared to recommend themselves to the noble, and made a practical action. In this career path for the noble people to create a lot of value.

Why y can she get your appreciation, and get the opportunity to create such a value? Just because she won't give up and won everything on her own. When things are not in a hurry to have their own way to deal with the situation, no matter what things know to rely on their own to get. Have clear goals and actions.

In fact, it is better to see too much, to understand that this life and no one can really have been accompanied, so people around the release, not trouble nor to ask for help, because they know after all can accompany their own people only themselves. Cool thin is a kind of character, is a kind of attitude, is a kind of tone of people doing things. Cool thin people practice the cold way of seeing the world.

Life advice：To be a Look at the world coldly, do not bother others