I‘m kind, open and sometimes insecure. I like who I am and have no intention of becoming someone different because of narcissists. Narcissists don’t respect boundaries and so having them isn’t protection. If they are covert and get inside, they will destroy your boundaries. The only boundary that works with them is no involvement and no contact.
Self love isn’t protection either. They demolish that if too if they get in. I have a few good friends who love me when I’m doing well, when I’m in my deepest despair and i don’t have to feel worthy or love myself to earn this.
They just love me. I can disbelief them, push them away, have no boundaries and no self love.They don’t hurt me even when they could.
They are healthy and not predatory.
Other people’s behavior has very little to do with me. How I treat them has very little to do with them.
My protection is being able to discern the predators from the normal people and quickly kick the predators to the curb.
我善良，开放，有时有不安全感。 我喜欢我是谁，也不想因为自恋者而变成不同的人。 自恋者不尊重边界，所以拥有它们不是保护。 如果他们隐蔽起来，进入内部，他们会破坏你的界限。 与他们合作的唯一的边界是没有参与和没有联系。
自爱也不是保护。 如果他们进来的话，它也会被拆除。我有几个好朋友在我做得很好的时候爱我，当我陷入绝望的时候，我不必觉得自己有价值，或者爱自己去赚取。
他们只是爱我。 我可以不相信他们，把他们推开，没有界限，也没有自己的爱。即使他们能够，他们也不会伤害我。
他们是健康的，而不是掠夺性的。
其他人的行为与我很少有关系。 我如何对待他们与他们很少有关系。
我的保护能够辨别正常人的掠食者，并迅速将掠食者赶到路边。
