Running in the soft rain and good music
Enjoying the nice morning
It is only my own time
It is the beginning of happiness every day
先在小区里跑了五公里，又沿河跑到浙大来回六公里。
气温舒适的不像夏天，奔跑的脚步不想停歇。
你跑得快，耳边会全是风声和歌声；
你跑得慢，耳边才会充斥着人们的闲言碎语。
The animals inside came out to play
When face to face with all our fears
Learned our lessons through the tears
Made memories we knew would never fade
One day my father he told me
Son don't let it slip away
He took me in his arm I heard him say
When you get older
Your wild heart will live for younger days
Think of me if ever you're afraid
He said one day you'll leave this world behind
So live a life you will remember
My father told me when I was just a child
These are the nights that never die
My father told me
When thunder clouds start pouring down
Light a fire they can't put out
Carve your name into those shining stars
He said go venture far beyond the shores
Don't forsake this life of yours
I'll guide you home no matter where you are……
一路单曲循环听着这首歌
在这样美好的清晨里想念着我亲爱的爸爸
仿佛听到他也正对我说着同样的话
下个月父亲节希望能在梦中见到您呀
凝飞早练晨读20220511家庭教育心理学习分享——100合心理学效应：拍球效应（76/100）
有一位经验丰富的老船长，某天他的货轮卸货后在返航途中遭遇到可怕的风暴。水手们惊慌失措，而老船长则果断命令水手打开货舱并往里面灌水。随着货舱里的水位逐渐升高，船体逐渐下沉，而货轮却也越来越平稳了。
船长这才说道：“百万吨的巨轮很少有被打翻的，出事故的往往是根基轻的小船。船在负重时才是最安全的，空船时则是最危险的。当然这种负重也需要根据船舶本身的载重能力而定，适当的负重可以让船只抵挡暴风骤雨的侵袭。”
拍球效应指的就是类似的效果。人在拍球时，用的力越大，球就跳的越高。其寓意为人若承受的压力越大，潜能发挥程度就越高；而人的压力越轻，潜能发挥程度就较弱。
升学和就业，我们人生每个阶段，都是一次次施压的结果。没有压力的人生，就像风暴中没有负重的货轮，轻易就会被人生中遭遇的巨浪给打翻。
