Maybe You Should Talk to Someone

作者 Lori Gottlieb

家庭矛盾的产生受到“内在平衡”的影响

每当家庭系统里的一个成员开始发生改变，哪怕改变是积极健康的，其他成员也很有可能开始想尽一切办法来维持现状，让情况回到“内在平衡”的状态。

Whenever a person in a family system starts to make changes, even if the changes are healthy and positive, it's not unusual for other members in this system to do everything they can to maintain the status quo and bring things back to homeostasis.