Don't believe my words easily. it maybe wrong!
You have an apple; i have an apple.If we exchage our apples, we still have one apple.You have an idea;i have an idea.If we exchange our ideas. we both have two ideas. This maybe a educational story of learning to share that we often heard in our childhood.But in our life, if meet such scene:there is one thing that you like it much and you tell your best friend.After some time ,you ask your friend that how he feels.he tells you regretfully that he is on the go everyday and can not make time to it. After another period of time,you ask him again,the answer is also not good.Do you have a disappointed feeling that why others can not see the price of it which is good for me.
Careful readers maybe have found that i confused twe concepts:sharing and suggestion. But can we really distinguish them clearly in life?
Sharing! What kind of people we share with is better?
The trading gross of Tmall reached over 100 billions yuan on November 11,2016.It is an excellent news to Jack Ma. He told the world that he made enough money in that day. But for us,it is a normal news .We don't at all care about it .But for JingDong mall?As we all know,the things shared must be good to sharer(bad things only can be described in the word spread. The sharer feels much oppressed about his good news.he wants to share with others.But most people don't care about it.some people even feel unhappy when they hear about the news.
so,when you choose people you want to share.the best audience is who maybe get profits from your news. then it is the people who don't care about it. If there is none.please swallow your news.
As for suggestion,It is a big topic, Lets talk it tomorrow.
