翻译:
①What counts the most is not what happened, but how you deal with it.
②How you deal with it counts more than what happened.
场景1:重要的不是要什么，而是不要什么
What you don't want counts more than what you want.
场景2:重要的不是得到什么，而是如何得到
What counts the most is not what you get , but how you get it.
