今天看了一段话，关于婚姻的，写得非常好，分享给大家。
“Most people get married believing a myth---that marriage is a beautiful box fill of all the things they have longed for. Companionship, sexual fulfillment,intimacy, and friendship. The truth is that marriage, at the start, is an empty box. You much put something in before you can take anything out. There is no love in marriage; love is in people, and people put it into marriage. There is no romance in marriage,people have to infuse it into their marriage. A couple must learn the art and form a habit of giving,loving,serving,praising--keeping the box full. If you take out more than you put in, the box will empty.”
翻译过来的大概意思是：很多人结婚时都误认为婚姻是一个美丽的宝盒，里面有他们一直渴望的一切：亲密的伙伴关系、生活的满足、两人之间的卿卿我我以及友情。但事实是，婚姻一开始是个空盒子，你得先往里面放进一些东西，才能从里面取出东西。婚姻本身是没有爱的，爱在人的心里，因此人们必须往婚姻中注入爱。婚姻本身也没有浪漫，人们必须在自己的婚姻生活中制造浪漫。夫妻双方应该学会爱的艺术，养成这些良好的习惯：彼此付出、相爱、给予、赞美，让婚姻这个美丽的盒子总是满满的。如果我们的索取多于付出，婚姻这个盒子终将会变空。
白话文就是：婚姻需要呵护、经营和坚守！
但所有一切的前提是：一，找一个好人；二、自己做个好人！
祝所有看文的我们都婚姻幸福！
