看到一个有趣的观点，关于婚姻，来自著名投资人沃伦·巴菲特。
他说：
And you'll want to marry is that's going to last, not necessarily the happiest marriage that you want.
如果你希望婚姻长久，不一定非得是最幸福的婚姻。
What quality do you look for is a spouse？
你对伴侣最看重的会是什么？
One quality, do you look for brains, do you look for humor, do you look for character, do you look for beauty？
最核心的一点，你会希望对方很聪明，或者你希望对方很幽默，或者你希望对方很有性格，或者对方很美丽？
No.
这些都不对。
You look for low expectations.
你需要的是低期望值。
That is the marriage that's gonna last. Both have low expectations.
这样婚姻才会长久，夫妻双方都要降低期望值。
我说：
A long marriage will allow you to discover the good in each other, and find the way to live in harmony.
长久的婚姻会让发现对方的优点，并找到和谐相处的方法。
