监听返回键

@Override  
    public boolean onKeyDown(int keyCode, KeyEvent event)  
    {  
        if (keyCode == KeyEvent.KEYCODE_BACK )  
        {  
            // 创建退出对话框  
            AlertDialog isExit = new AlertDialog.Builder(this).create();  
            // 设置对话框标题  
            isExit.setTitle("系统提示");  
            // 设置对话框消息  
            isExit.setMessage("确定要退出吗");  
            // 添加选择按钮并注册监听  
            isExit.setButton("确定", listener);  
            isExit.setButton2("取消", listener);  
            // 显示对话框  
            isExit.show();  
  
        }  
          
        return false;  
          
    }  

监听对话框里面的button点击事件

    DialogInterface.OnClickListener listener = new DialogInterface.OnClickListener()  
    {  
        public void onClick(DialogInterface dialog, int which)  
        {  
            switch (which)  
            {  
            case AlertDialog.BUTTON_POSITIVE:// "确认"按钮退出程序  
                finish();  
                break;  
            case AlertDialog.BUTTON_NEGATIVE:// "取消"第二个按钮取消对话框  
                break;  
            default:  
                break;  
            }  
        }  
    };