Many people want to get a long-term love relationship. Have to say this is a difficult process. So it's hard for a lot of people to get it. Love is like sand, the harder you try, the less you catch. Here are some suggestions for long-term love, hoping to help you:
(1) Trust each other, which increases the sense of security. For example, if the other goes out to play with friends, don't make frequent phone calls. You can let him/her party know that you will go out and how long you will spend in advance.
(2) Give each other enough private space. Everyone has privacy, so keep a certain distance with your lover is important. Mobile phone is a very private existence, don't look at the other party's mobile phone.
(3) Communicating each other in time. Say the inner thoughts when quarrel, because many quarrels are caused by misunderstanding.
(4) Transposition thinking. Learn to stand on the other side's position to think. It can avoid a lot of contradictions.
(5) Cultivating a common interest, such as reading a book, learning music, fitness and so on.
(6) Set up a common goal, such as saving money, buying a house, etc. After achieving the goal, you can get rewards such as tourism.
(7) Patience and tolerance. Tolerate each other's bad habits and shortcomings.
(8) Praise each other frequently. Praise instead of criticism can make people better. For example, praise each other's work ability is very strong or the cooking is delicious.
(9) In addition, you can also learn some love skills from online or offline courses. Not everyone is born to fall in love. Knowledge makes progress, which is applicable in all aspects.
The above is not only the author's suggestions but also experience. There are many things that are not mentioned, such as creating romance for each other on a regular basis. The rest need you to explore in practice, remember to sum up experience, it will be very useful. Finally, I wish all lovers get married. Be what you want to be before you meet the right person.
