越努力越努力越痛苦，揭秘那些拼命搞钱的三大陷阱；越痛苦？别再相信抛弃情感搞钱的鬼话了

<h1 data-pm-slice="0 0 []" data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; font-weight: 400; font-size: 16px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid solid none; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235) rgb(229, 231, 235) rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); line-height: 2em; visibility: visible; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; visibility: visible;">为什么越努力越痛苦？因为你走错了路</span></h1><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; visibility: visible; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; visibility: visible;">这让我想起一句话：你以为的成功，可能只是另一种失败。</span></p><h3 data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; font-weight: 400; 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font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; visibility: visible; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; visibility: visible;">陪伴过500多个企业中高管家庭后，我发现一个残酷的真相：很多人越努力越痛苦，不是因为不够拼，而是因为方向错了。</span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; visibility: visible; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); visibility: visible;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; visibility: visible;">第一，抛弃情感道义搞钱，是个巨大的错误。</span></strong><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; visibility: visible;">这个社会的财富，只集中在不到10%的少数人手里。这是你无论如何努力都无法改变的事实。</span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; visibility: visible; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; visibility: visible;">你看那些年入百万的吹牛视频，先问问他交了多少税？有没有五险一金？公司是不是皮包公司？很多所谓的"成功人士"，只是在贩卖焦虑、收割韭菜。</span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; visibility: visible; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; visibility: visible;">真实的平均工资是多少？2023年全国城镇非私营单位就业人员年平均工资是12万，私营单位只有6.8万。有些人，拼死拼活，可能连平均线都够不着。</span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; visibility: visible; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; visibility: visible;">更可怕的是，即使你真赚到钱了，如果不能转化成幸福，那也只是一堆废纸。我见过太多有钱但不快乐的人，他们的痛苦，比穷人还深。</span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; visibility: visible; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; visibility: visible;"><br style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; visibility: visible;"></span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; visibility: visible; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); visibility: visible;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; visibility: visible;">第二，情绪情感才是每个人的生产资料。</span></strong><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; visibility: visible;">钱是稀缺资源，但情绪情感是每个人每天都拥有的。这是最容易获得幸福的途径，也是最被低估的财富。</span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; visibility: visible; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; visibility: visible;">有人说："我现在连饭都吃不饱，还谈什么情感？"其实恰恰相反，越是困难的时候，越需要情感支撑。一个温暖的拥抱、一句真心的鼓励，可能比1万块钱更有力量。</span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; visibility: visible; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; visibility: visible;">我见过一对夫妻，老公失业在家，老婆每天下班回来不是抱怨，而是陪他聊天、鼓励他。半年后老公重新找到工作，两个人感情反而更好了。这就是情感的力量。</span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; visibility: visible; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; visibility: visible;"><br style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; visibility: visible;"></span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; visibility: visible; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); visibility: visible;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; visibility: visible;">第三，无情难有财，有财也易失。</span></strong><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; visibility: visible;">很多人以为搞钱就要狠、要冷血、要六亲不认。其实大错特错。</span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; visibility: visible; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; visibility: visible;">情绪价值是产品附加值的重要来源。你看那些成功的品牌，哪个不是在卖情绪？苹果卖的是优越感，可口可乐卖的是快乐，迪士尼卖的是童话。如果只卖功能，根本赚不到大钱。</span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; visibility: visible; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; visibility: visible;">更重要的是，无情之人得财也容易失。多少有钱人因为离婚倾家荡产？胖猫事件、翟欣欣事件、燕冬萍的笑，这些新闻你都忘了吗？还有那些天价彩礼、婚姻诈骗，哪个不是因为无情种下的恶果？</span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">如果你也陷入了越努力越痛苦的困境，想跟过去的错误认知和解，想解决当下的财情失衡问题，想规避未来同类的陷阱，评论区回复"免费测评"，我来帮你找到出路。</span></p><p>
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</p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">我发现，那些越努力越痛苦的人，都犯了三个错误</span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235);"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">第一个错误：把搞钱当成唯一目标。</span></strong><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">有个老板跟我说，他这些年只顾着赚钱，忽略了老婆和孩子。等他终于赚够钱了，老婆要离婚，孩子叫他"陌生人"。他哭着说："我拼命赚钱是为了给他们更好的生活，为什么他们不理解我？"</span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">我说："因为你给的不是他们想要的。他们要的是陪伴、是关心、是情感链接，而不是一堆冷冰冰的钱。"</span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">钱很重要，但不是全部。如果你为了赚钱失去了健康、失去了家人、失去了自己，那这钱赚得有什么意义？</span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235);"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">第二个错误：以为情感是累赘。</span></strong><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">很多人觉得，谈情感就是矫情、就是浪费时间。他们把所有的精力都放在工作上，把情感需求压抑到最底层。</span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">结果呢？压抑的情绪总有一天会爆发。有的人得了抑郁症，有的人突然崩溃，有的人做出极端行为。你以为省下了时间，其实是在透支生命。</span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">我见过一个企业家，40岁就猝死了。他的遗言是："我这辈子除了赚钱，什么都没干过。"多可悲啊。</span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235);"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">第三个错误：忽视了情感的生产力。</span></strong><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">很多人不知道，情感其实是一种生产力。一个情绪稳定的人，工作效率比情绪混乱的人高3倍以上。一个家庭和睦的人，事业成功率比家庭破裂的人高5倍以上。</span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">你看那些真正的成功人士，哪个不是家庭幸福、朋友众多、人脉广泛？他们的成功，不只是靠努力，更是靠情感链接。</span></p><h2 data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; font-weight: 400; font-size: 16px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid solid none; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235) rgb(229, 231, 235) rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">其实，财情双生才是正确的路</span></h2><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">我提出的"财情双生法"，就是要告诉你：财和情不是对立的，而是相互成就的。</span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235);"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">无情难有财。</span></strong><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">你看那些做生意的，如果对客户冷冰冰，客户会买单吗？如果对员工苛刻，员工会尽心吗？如果对合作伙伴耍心机，人家会长期合作吗？</span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">情绪价值才是产品的核心竞争力。海底捞为什么火？因为服务好、让人舒服。胖东来为什么牛？因为对员工好、对顾客好。这些企业赚的不只是钱，赚的是人心。</span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235);"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">有财也易失。</span></strong><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">多少有钱人因为情感问题倾家荡产？</span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">胖猫事件，一个年轻人因为感情纠纷自杀，留下一屁股债。翟欣欣事件，程序员被骗婚，最后跳楼。燕冬萍的笑，背后是多少恩怨情仇？</span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">这些惨剧告诉我们：如果你只顾着赚钱，不顾情感，早晚会付出代价。而且这个代价，可能比你赚的钱还多。</span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><h3 data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; font-weight: 400; font-size: 16px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">财情双生的三个核心</span></h3><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235);"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">核心一：情绪是价值预警系统。</span></strong><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">很多人把情绪当成敌人，其实情绪是你最好的朋友。它会告诉你哪里不对劲、哪里有风险、哪里需要调整。</span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">如果你感到焦虑，说明你的方向可能错了；如果你感到愤怒，说明你的边界被侵犯了；如果你感到悲伤，说明你失去了重要的东西。学会倾听情绪，你就能避开很多坑。</span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235);"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">核心二：关系是财富放大器。</span></strong><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">一个人能走多远，不取决于他有多努力，而取决于他有多少高质量的关系。</span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">你看那些真正的富豪，哪个不是人脉广泛？他们的财富，很大一部分来自关系。而关系的核心，就是情感链接。你对别人好，别人才会对你好；你帮助别人，别人才会帮助你。</span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235);"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">核心三：幸福是财富的终极目标。</span></strong><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">赚钱是为了什么？不就是为了过得更好吗？如果你赚了钱却不幸福，那这钱有什么用？</span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">我见过一个千万富翁，每天愁眉苦脸。我也见过一个普通工薪族，每天笑容满面。你说谁更成功？幸福才是财富的终极目标，而幸福的核心，就是情感满足。</span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><h2 data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; font-weight: 400; font-size: 16px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid solid none; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235) rgb(229, 231, 235) rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">三个方法，帮你实现财情双生</span></h2><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235);"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">方法一：别把情感当负担，而是当资源。</span></strong><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">你的家人、朋友、伴侣，不是你赚钱路上的绊脚石，而是你最大的支持系统。好好经营这些关系，它们会给你带来意想不到的帮助。</span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">我见过一个创业者，启动资金是朋友借的，第一批客户是亲戚介绍的，关键时刻是老婆支持的。他说："没有他们，我早就放弃了。"</span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235);"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">方法二：学会驾驭情绪，而不是压抑情绪。</span></strong><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">很多人不是不想处理情绪，而是不知道怎么处理。其实驾驭情绪是一种能力，是可以学习的。</span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">你可以通过运动、冥想、写日记、找人聊天等方式，慢慢学会与情绪相处。当你能驾驭情绪了，你会发现工作效率提高了、人际关系改善了、生活质量提升了。</span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235);"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">方法三：把幸福当成目标，而不是副产品。</span></strong><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">很多人以为先赚钱，再追求幸福。其实应该反过来，先追求幸福，钱自然会来。</span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">因为一个幸福的人，状态好、效率高、人缘好，更容易抓住机会。而一个痛苦的人，状态差、效率低、人缘差，机会来了也抓不住。</span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><h2 data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; font-weight: 400; font-size: 16px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid solid none; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235) rgb(229, 231, 235) rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">下期预告</span></h2><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">下次我会跟你聊：为什么有些人看起来很努力，却总是赚不到钱？背后的深层原因是什么？ 如果你有兴趣，可在评论留言，如果无人回应，就暂时不做。</span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">你有没有陷入过越努力越痛苦的困境？你是怎么走出来的？评论区告诉我，咱们一起探讨。</span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">记住，越努力越痛苦，不是因为你不够拼，而是因为你走错了路。抛弃情感道义，一心搞钱，是个巨大的错误。真正的成功，是财情双生、共情双赢。</span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; 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