Today I had a quarrel with my husband.
The reason was that we have lined for a long time to get a table at a popular restaurant. When I stepped into the restaurant, I felt uncomfortable, because there was a large screen showing the commercials, and playing loud music and lyrics. We were sitting in front of the screen, so it made me feel very unhappy. At that time I have already eat some food, so I was full and not willing to eat any thing. My only wish was to finish the dinner and leave the restaurant ASAP.
My husband was checking the menu and he wanted to order Tofu, Bullfrog and Chicken Feet, I rejected because I thought we have agreed when lining to order Tofu, Bamboo and Fried Chicken. We argued with each us, and he got impatient, began to louder his voice. It was a sign that he was unhappy and about to freak out. I was angry and wanted to leave the restaurant, and he shouted at me. He was complaining I didn't give him the respect and the freedom he deserves. To avoid making a scene at the public place, I stayed, but I didn't ate anything after that. Of course, the dishes were not good at all. We left the restaurant without speaking to each other. He tried to make it up, but I was still angry and refused to accept his peaceful gesture.
My point is, you can never shout at your wife, especially in a public place. We always fight for food when dining outside. He is so keen on food, and can't control his temper. At most time he is a good person, but in such cases I just can't bear that. I wish we can always speak to each other with patience and restraint.
I will not end the war unless he realizes how ridiculous he has been and promises not to do it again. Food is important, but there is no reason to shout at your wife/husband.
