When you need help,ask for it out loud and be very specific about the help you want and why .需要帮助时,大声说出来并准确阐述我们要的帮助和原因。
Please avoid disclaimers,apologies and bribes.请避免免责声明,道歉和贿赂。
What is rewarding about helping is knowing that your help landed,that it had impact,that you were effective.帮助的回报是知道你的帮助落实了,产生了影响,是有效的。
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