A long term romantic relationship , money will come up at some point .
Today you'll learn how to discuss financial matters with your partner.
After this lesson, you'll be able to talk about finances and discuss plans for the future in a relationship .
So, let's get started .
First , let's learn five words or phrases on the Topic .
Pop the question 求婚
It's an informal way of saying “ ask someone to marry you ” .
He popped the question on her birthday and she said yes .
How romantic ！
What's a good place to pop the question ？
At a park , At a restaurant , On the mountain top .
Great idea . so you guys are getting really serious with each other .
I'm so happy for you .
Get serious
I think Harry and Helen are getting serious about their relationship .
How can you tell they're getting serious ？
Well , they started to talk about future plans and finances .
Finances
Finances could mean the money and other assets you have .
I think Max has his finances in order .
Are finances important in a relationship ？
I think finances can be important in a relationship .
Got it .Speaking of finances, one thing that you don't want is debt.
debt
Aron got into debt after his business failed .Now he's starting from scratch and plans to pay off his debts in five years .
I don't talk to him about his debts, Because it's a touchy subject .
A touchy subject
Finances are touchy subject for many people ,But it's necessary to discuss them in a serious relationship .
Is anything else a touchy subject ？
I think talking about having a child can be a very touchy subject .
I think so too .
I am deep in debt now so I don't have money to lend you .
Which of the following is usually not a touchy subject ？ Hobbies .
Are you guys getting serious ？
No, we just started seeing each other .
Are you gonna pop the question to your girlfriend ？
Yes, and I need to think of a really romantic way to do it . Any ideas ？
He plans to ask his girlfriend to marry him .
Now Apple and I has talk about finances . That lesson to what we say ,And the trying to figure out how Apryl feels about the chat.
It's time to have a one of those serious talks ,Isn't it ？
Yeah, we both know it's time .It seems like just a few months ago We were just starting to get to know each other .
Wait, you're not going to pop the questions, are you ？Not here and now.
Not, we actually need to talk .We've been getting serious with each other . And I know it's a touchy subject But I want to discuss finances .
Oh, I should have known . You're always serious about finance stuff.
Well , I want to start talking about important things , Like your credit card debt .
I knew eventually we'd have to talk about it .I intend on getting a payment plan together ……But
Well , are you okay with going over things together ？I want to make sure you have all the information to make good decision .
I could really use some help ,actually.
Thinks .geez , I thought this was going to be a total different kind of serious talk .
Well I want to start talking about important things. Like your credit card debt .
Start talking about
Start doing sth
Start to do something
We'll just focus on the ING form .
Let's start painting the house .
Or start hitting .
I intended on getting the payment plan together .
Intend on doing ssomething
I intend on popping the question on A valentine's day .情人节
Let's see some more verbs like this ：
I enjoying being with you .
We look forward to seeing you .
Don't give up trying .
It takes some time to learn these words . So watch out for them .
Cool, I enjoy learning new things every day .
Well done .
Exercises ：
John and Jordan e have started planning their wedding Already .
You've got to give up smoking . Or your asthma will get worse .
I look forward to seeing you in Paris .
He intends on popping the question on her birthday .
I finished writing the report just in time . _
I gave up talking about debts with him because it's a touchy subject .
Love and money 爱情 和 金钱哪个重要？ 爱情和金钱是相爱相杀的情侣，离不开对方，又相互鄙视。
Best things in life are free, and that money can't buy your love .
People will do crazy things for love but they will also do amazing things for money .
Are you agree with it ？
Hey do you have a minutes ？
Sure, he won second. let me finish sending this message . what's up ？
You know Apple and I have been with each other for a couple of months .
Yeah , and you guys are getting pretty serious, right ？
I think so ,I'm actually thinking ……
What ？are you gonna pop the question ？
no, no No .Not that yet. I'm thinking about whether we should start planing our finances Together .
You know finances can be a touchy subject .
Yet but I think it's something We're gonna have to start talking about sooner or later .
Okay you're not worried that the April is in debt ,are you ？
Not really .She's not big spender.I just want to start taking about Our future more seriously .And I think finances is a big part of it .
Understand it seems like just a few months ago you first met , And look at your now .
