"Do not worry about things beyond your control; life is long and cannot be centered around one or two matters. There are many things to do, like meeting new friends, going to places you want to visit, striving to improve yourself. The beautiful scenery and people who share your interests will appear when you become more capable. Nothing is insurmountable or unforgettable. For you, the most important thing is to maintain emotional stability and a healthy financial situation. Do not force anyone to love you; learn to make peace with yourself."

“不必为了无法掌控的事而焦虑，人生很漫长，不能只围绕一两件事，有很多事情可以去做，认识新朋友，去想去的地方，努力提升自己，大好的风景和与你志同道合的人，都会在你变厉害的时候及时出现，没有什么事是过不去的和难以忘记的，对你来说，最重要的是持续的情绪稳定，良性的财务状况，不要强求谁来爱，要学会和自己和解。