【美】西娅·夏罗克《遇见你之前》2016

《遇见你之前》

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故事梗概

露易莎是一个家境普通、生活单调的小镇姑娘。为了养家,她应聘成为了一位高位瘫痪病人的护工。威尔曾是家境优渥、热爱极限运动的精英人士,一场车祸让他颈部以下瘫痪,余生只能被困在轮椅上。他变得尖刻、厌世,并与父母立下“再活6个月就去安乐死”的约定。

剧情转折:小露的出现像一道彩虹,她用各种奇装异服和笨拙的真诚,带威尔去看赛马、听音乐会、旅行,两人逐渐相爱。小露拼命想向威尔证明“生活值得活下去”,试图改变他赴死的决心。

结局:尽管深爱小露,威尔依然坚持前往瑞士执行了安乐死。他留给小露一笔遗产和一封信,鼓励她“大胆地生活”,去巴黎求学,活出他无法再拥有的精彩人生。小露最终尊重了他的选择,带着他的爱和期许,开始了真正属于自己的人生。

经典台词

1、You only get one life. It's actually your duty to live it as fully as possible.

人只活一次,你有义务尽可能活得充实。

2、Live boldly. Push yourself. Don't settle.Wear those stripy legs with pride.Kowing you still have possibilities a luxury. Kowing I might havr given them to you has eased something for me. So, this is it. Your are scored on my heart. You were from the first day tou walked in with your sweet smile and your ridiculous clothes.And your bad jokes and your complete inability to ever hide a single thing you felt. Don't think of me too often. I don't want you getting sad. Just live well. Just live. I'll be walking beside you every step of the way.

大胆地生活,突破自己,不要将就。骄傲地穿着你的条纹裤袜,知道自己仍有无限可能是种奢侈,知道我能给你带来这些可能性让我很欣慰。所以,就是这样了。你深深地刻在了我的心里。从你第一天走进我家开始,用你甜美的微笑和一身可笑的衣服,以及那些蹩脚的笑话,还有你完全无法隐藏自己的任何感受。不要经常想起我,我不希望你伤心,好好活下去,好好活着。人生的每一步,我都会陪着你走。

3、

-I get that this could be a good life, but this is not my life. You never saw me before. I love my life. I really love it. I can't be the kind of man who just accepts this. I have become a whole new person these last six months because of you, and that's why I can't have you tied to me. I don't want you to miss all the things that someone else could give you and self selfishly. I don't want you to look at me one day and feel even the tiniest bit of regret or pity. I can't watch you wandering around the Annes in your crazy dresses or see you naked and not not be able to do. Any idea what I wanna do to you right now, I can't live like this. Tonight being with you is the most wonderful thing you could have ever done for me, but I need it to end here. No more pain and exhaustion and waking and waking every morning already washing it was over. It's not going to get better than this. 

-我知道这样的生活会很美好。但这不是“我的生活”。你从没见过我以前的样子。我曾深爱我的生活。真的很爱很爱。我无法成为那种能接受一切的人。因为遇见了你,经过这六个月,我已经完全变了一个人。这也是为什么我不能把你束缚在我身边。我不希望你错过别人能给你的一切,更自私地说,我不希望有一天你看着我,感到哪怕是一丝的后悔或怜悯。我不能看着你,穿着你那些漂亮裙子在我的小屋里转悠,或者看着面前裸体的你,而我却不能……我现在想对你做什么就好了。我不不能像这样生活着。今天晚上,和你在一起的这段时光,就是你能给我的最好的礼物,但我必须要做一个了结,不再有痛苦与绝望。不再每天早上一睁眼就希望这一天马上过去,我的身体不会再好转了。

-You are so selfish I tore my heart out in front of you, and here all you can say is no, and now you want me to come and watch the worst thing you could possibly imagine. Do you have any idea what you are asking?

你怎么能这么自私,我在你面前掏心掏肺,你却只说一个不字。而现在,你还想让我跟你一起,去见证世上最糟糕的事情,你知道你的要求有多离谱吗?


观影感悟

这是一部很感人的爱情电影。如果不是威尔高度瘫痪,他绝对不会看上农村出身的小露,他的女朋友一定是金光闪闪的门当户对的千金。但造化弄人,他在长期的陪伴中产生了感情,爱上了自己的护工。爱情不一定是一见钟情,也有日久生情,并不稀奇。他不能接受自己往后余生在轮椅中度过,他是那么的骄傲,他不能接受自己爱的人,因为他错过自己的一生。威尔还是按照原计划选择安乐死。

“I don't wan you to miss all the things that someone else could give you.”

我不希望你,因为我而错过其他对你好的人。

“You only get one life. It's actually your duty to live it as fully as possible.”

人只活一次,你应该尽可能地让它丰富多彩。

喜欢是占有,但爱是克制,是成全。

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