原版:
A Father's Prayer
(by General Douglas MacArthur)
Build me a son, O Lord, who will be strong enough to know when he is weak, and brave enough to face himself when he is afraid; one who will be proud and unbending in honest defeat, and humble and gentle in victory.
Build me a son whose wishbone will not be where his backbone should be; a son who will know Thee and that to know himself is the foundation stone of knowledge.
Lead him, I pray, not in the path of ease and comfort, but under the stress and spur of difficulties and challenge. Here let him learn to stand up in the storm; here let him learn compassion for those who fail.
Build me a son whose heart will be clean, whose goal will be high; a son who will master himself before he seeks to master other men; one who will learn to laugh, yet never forget how to weep; one who will reach into the future, yet never forget the past.
And after all these things are his, add, I pray, enough of a sense of humor, so that he may always be serious, yet never take himself too seriously. Give him humility, so that he may always remember the simplicity of greatness, the open mind of true wisdom, the meekness of true strength.
Then I, his father, will dare to whisper, "I have not lived in vain".
繁体版:
父亲的祷告文
(文/麦克阿瑟)
主啊,請使我的兒子足夠堅強,知道什麼時候他最軟弱;足夠勇敢,在他害怕時能夠自持;使他成為一個勝不驕,敗不餒的人。
請使我的兒子能夠不以空想代替行動;使他認識你──同時知道認識自己是知識的基石。
我祈求,不要讓他走上安逸舒適的道路,而讓他接受困雖及挑戰的磨練和刺激。讓他從中學習在風暴中站立起來,讓他從中學習同情失敗者。
請使我的兒子心地純潔,目光遠大,使他在打算指揮別人之前,先學會駕馭自己,使他成為一個矚望將來,但永不忘記過去的人。
如果他能作到以上所說的一切,我還要祈禱上帝賜給他充份的幽默感,那樣儘管他可能經常保持嚴肅,但不致於使他自己過於矜持。賜給他謙恭,使他可以時刻記住真正偉大之單純質樸,真正智慧之兼容並蓄,真正力量之溫和謙沖。
然後,作為父親的我.才敢輕聲的說:“我總算沒有虛度此生。”
简体版:
我自己的祷告文
主呀,请使我足够坚强,知道什么时候我最软弱;足够勇敢,在我害怕时能够自持;使我成为一个胜不骄、败不馁的人。
请使我能够不以空想代替行动;使我认识你——同时知道认识自己是知识的基石。
我祈求,不要让我走上安逸舒适的道路,而让我接受困难及挑战的磨练和刺激;让我从中学习到从风暴中站立起来,让我从中学习同情失败者。
请使我心地纯洁,目光远大,使我打算在指挥别人之前,先学会驾驭自己,使我成为一个瞩望将来,但永不忘记过去的人。
如果我能做到以上所说的一切,我还要祈祷主给我充分的幽默感,那样尽管我可能经常保持严肃,但不至于使我自己过于矜持。赐给我谦恭,使我可以时刻记住真正伟大之单纯质朴,真正智慧之兼容并蓄,真正力量之温和谦冲。
然后,我才敢轻声说:“我总算没有虚度此生。”
要熟记这篇祈祷文,在我软弱的时候,向主祷告;在我害怕的时候,向主祷告;在接受困难和挑战的时候,向主祷告;在指挥别人之前,更要向主祷告。保持一份幽默感,足够的谦恭,从容的过好这一生,并且有幸认识这世界上真正的伟大、智慧和力量。感谢主。