作者：何强

給自己：這是壹篇舊文，但今天對我仍有教益，細品！

一雙鞋墊本不值錢，但是妻子一針一線所為，且在昨夜我睡下之後給我墊上的。

下班到家“鞋墊怎樣？”“還好！”邊換鞋，便隨口答道。妻有些失望“還好就是不好。。。”“很好，真的！”“靜靜說：還好就是不好。。。要麽最好，要麽不好，沒有還好！”

是的，女兒高考後就在自已的詞典里去掉了中性詞，只有“最好”“不好”，沒有“還好”。

高考復讀後以總分第一的成績被錄取；考研同時以兩個第一錄取為藝碩和碩士研究生。最近的研一鋼琴主課考試，在十幾名同學不及格的情況下獨得優秀。可優秀背後的汗水幾人知？！

考後女兒給我的短信中有這樣一段：“老師的惡駡雖然很殘酷，但是也讓我明白了，無論如何至少這三年研究生生涯，我必須做到最好的！這對我來說是一個莫大的動力。所有的功課必須提前完成，而且必須做到最好，這是我的目標。。。”

一雙小小的鞋墊告訴我：凡事無論大小不重要，重要的是用心，有想法！想了，做了，用全身心去做了，結果就是“最好”；沒想法，不用心去做或不是全身心投入，結果肯定是“不好”。哪裡還有什麽“還好”？！

真的，任何事情的成敗都在於自已，在於態度，在於投入。。。用心與每件事，投入與每一步過程，專注地體會過程的細節，就會真的感覺到生活的美好。

其實，最好就在我們每天的平凡生活中。我的妻子是最好的，突然一陣激動的感覺！不是嗎？每天一到家飯好了，雖普普通通然那是份用心；週末上班，一套乾乾淨淨、整整齐齐的衣服放在沙发上；今天的一雙鞋墊。。。你不用心，不去體會，錯過的最好，得到的只能是“還好”。怪誰呢？我們自已不用心，讓最好擦身而過卻總是用“還好”敷衍自已，結果只能是“不好”！

一雙鞋墊讓我頓悟珍惜“最好”，女兒親歷的“最好”使我敬畏！兩個女人給了我一筆巨大的財富“最好”！

這筆珍饈啟迪我開筆《兩個最好的女人—一個男人的哲學思考》。

《Two of the

best woman - a philosophical thinking man's》

The "best", "bad"

Author: HE Qiang

To yourself: This is one piece of the old

culture, but today there are still lessons to me, fine chemicals!

This is not worth a pair of insoles, but

the wife of stitch, and after last night I lie to my pad.

Work at home "insole How?"

"Okay!" Side of his shoes, he casually replied. ! Wife a little

disappointed "Fortunately, that is not good ..." "Well,

really," "quietly said: Fortunately, that is not good ... either the

best, or bad, there is no better!"

Yes, after the daughter of the college

entrance examination in their own dictionary to remove the neutral words, only

the "best", "bad", not "okay."

Repeat after the entrance to score the

first results to be admitted; PubMed while two first admission for arts master

and postgraduates. Recent research a piano main subject exam, in case of a

dozen students failing scored excellent. Excellent sweat behind may know a few

people? !

After my daughter to have such a test text

message: "The teacher's diatribe It sucks, but let me see, anyway, at

least this year graduate career, I have to do the best for me! is a great

motivation. All homework must be done in advance, and must be the best, this is

my goal ... "

Small pair of insoles told me: everything

regardless of size is not important, is the heart, there is the idea! Think,

do, do it with heart and soul, and the result is the "best"; no idea,

do not do it or not threw himself into the heart, the result is definitely

"not good." Where there is no "better"? !

Really, the success or failure lies own

anything, that attitude, that investment. . . Intentions and everything, and

every step of the investment process, focused to appreciate the details of the

process, you will really feel the beauty of life.

In fact, the best in our ordinary daily

life in. My wife is the best feeling a sudden burst of excitement! Is not it?

One good meal a day at home, although it is part intentions ordinary course;

weekends, a clean, neat clothes on the sofa; today a pair of insoles. . . You

do not mind, do not appreciate, missed the best, was only "okay."

Blame? We do not mind their own, so the best is always passing by

"okay" perfunctory own, the result can only be a "bad"!

Let me cherish pair of insoles epiphany

"best", the daughter witnessed the "best" make me awe! The

two women gave me a great asset to the "best"!

This delicacy inspired me to open the pen,

"two of the best woman - a man of philosophical reflection."