Sometime I always focus my attention on others’eyesight and comments. We care others’opinion and thoughts,which seems to play an important role during the process of making decisions.I always hold negative towards my life so I try to make preparation for everything and think toooo much about everything.However, if you stop and think carefully about it from your inner heart.Is it important?Is others’eyesight essential?Is that your choice?
My major prefers to cultivate students’benevolence attitude towards the disabled and the old and the weak in society.But as we all know,it is difficult to change a person.
As I grow older, I find it is you who really exert essential influence on everything and everybody around your world.It is your attitude that decides the world in your eyes.In my Wechat friends circle,there is a street singer who is from Qingdao City.Perhaps in our eyes,it is a tough job cause you have to face the control from the urban manager.But from his sharing ,judging from his appearance,I can see his optimism and fortitude.He is an abled father.He once said “If I can’t leave enough wealth for my son,I will choose to spare my time to accompany with him as he grows up. ”He undoubtly sets a good example and great love for his son.
Simone de Beauvoir ever said:”I gurantee to become a person, a clear mind and a firm will.”She did it without doubt.And she also has an impact on me.
Therefore tranfering your attention on yourself,which is the core belief in life.