When I began researching leadership and learning leadership, I found some secrets about leadership. The different characters have a different lead style. Everyone has a different personality. No matter what character you have, you can be a leader, but if you want to become a true leader, you must have some specific characteristics. It decides whether you are a true leader.
But, what is a true leader? The true leader should have what character they are. Reading here now, maybe you have some questions you want to ask me. Yes, as a true leader, you must have a lot of good attitudes.
Next, I am beginning to describe a really important attitude for a leader.
Self-control.
As a leader, why must we control our emotions?
All we are high level animals, and we have different emotions, happiness, anger, sadness, narrow, disappointment and so on, but as a leader we must have stable emotions. We must control ourselves. When you have unstable emotions, your employees begin not to believe you will be a true leader, or can make the right decisions in every selection. Why do some people want to follow you, because you have some excellent attitude, and you have stable vision, and you have persisted for a long time, and have stable conviction, and never give up. All the time, you decide by your vision, not your emotions, so you must learn how to control yourself.
As a leader how to control ourself's emotions and be a self-controller?
It's difficult. It's not easy. That's why there are only a few true leaders in the world, but if you want to be a true leader, you must have self-control, control yourself, not controlled by others. If some can spur your emotions to display anger, you will be controlled by others. You need practice controlling yourself, the power from your heart, not from out of your heart, always remember who you are, what you want to do. If you find someone who wants you to become angry, you must have the ability to find others' purpose, and defeat it, don't care about it. If someone fucking you, you don't care and leave away, if the dog beats you, you beat the dog? No, never beat with the animals, otherwise you are animals too.
Control yourself, good times will come, your lover will come, your favourite things will come.
And the important things are, you will be a true leader.
