Since I was in college,I have hardly contact with high school students even the close friend of the previous.Sometime because we were busy with our personal things,but we had no common language for we were in different places at the most of time.Therefore the relationship between friends gradually became less close.
In college,the roommates may be our close friends,but we also gradually produce contradictions over time.Sometime just for a little thing,may be due to a word,we might keep silent for a few days.In addition,some may prefer fussing.When these happen,I chose to remain silent.Although it could avoid conflicts in a way,it's not the most suitable solution.
As the saying gose“Till when dous purt”,so when the conflict occurs,we should be liberal and try the perspective－taking.Being kind to others and helping others when they are in need,then your personal connection will be good.
