现在的年轻人大概在外界的人眼中就是：就应该听从父母安排，无论工作还是爱情
来自深圳的万小姐，23岁，月收入5000。从事着一家奢侈品店的销售工作，自认为学历不高而愿意努力工作的她，常常被父母劝导，因为她父母是想让她做一名教师，是的，她父母认为一名工资2000的教师比一个店员5000的工作能更体面一些。
同样，来自安徽的吴先生，28岁，在一家国企就业，但是因为找了一个女朋友，父母百般不愿意。原因是他的女朋友是个体服装店老板。在他父母眼里，搞个体的都是不入流的社会人，在他父母里，只有国企才能算体面的工作，尽管收入也只是2000左右。
In the eyes of the outside world, young people nowadays should obey their parents' arrangement, no matter in work or in love
Miss wan, 23, from shenzhen, earns $5,000 a month. Working in a sales job in a luxury store, she is often persuaded by her parents that she is not highly educated and willing to work hard, because her parents want her to be a teacher. Yes, her parents think a teacher with a salary of 2,000 yuan is more decent than a clerk with a salary of 5,000 yuan.
Similarly, wu, 28, from anhui province, was employed by a state-owned enterprise, but his parents were reluctant because he found a girlfriend. The reason is that his girlfriend is a self-employed clothing store owner. In the eyes of his parents, those who engage in individual activities are social outcasts. In his parents' eyes, only state-owned enterprises can be considered as decent jobs, although the income is only about 2,000 yuan.
我身边有一位朋友，他在他25岁的时候放弃了父母给他安排的银行的工作，选择了一家金融公司从底层销售业务员做起，当时他父母气的都不想认他这个儿子了，几乎也不联系，他一人来到了陌生城市打拼，多年以后在远离家乡的三线城市买了房买了车也找了对象，现在他儿子都要上小学了。
还有另外一个同学，当年放弃了父母安排的医学研究院的工作，那种父母认为体面的工作，实际上在周边真的是会被人瞧不起的。后来他自己学了法律，在一家公司做行政司法的工作，他的父母到现在也还是对他的工作非常不满意，或许在长辈人眼里，医生，公务员才能真正算是一份工作。
I have a friend, he gave up when he was 25 years old his parents to arrange the bank work, choose a financial company starts from the underlying a salesman, when his parents don't want to recognize him the son of chi, almost don't contact, he came to the strange city, after many years in the three cities far from home, bought a house buy a car also to find the object, now his son was going to elementary school.
Then there was another student who had given up his parents' job at the medical research institute, a job that his parents thought was decent, but was really looked down upon in the neighborhood. Later, he studied law by himself and worked as an administrative judicature in a company. His parents are still very dissatisfied with his work. Maybe in the eyes of the elders, doctors and civil servants are really a job.
上一次有个朋友跟我说，她家里人给她安排相亲。她是名牌大学毕业的，专业也是业内知名的，在一家上市公司工作，有着不错的收入。然后对方告知她，考虑到她可能不适合，原因是她家庭成员中没有党员的身份。后来才知道，对方的家庭中全部成员全部都是党员。。。。。。。我真的不想吐槽，什么时候连身份都成为了你谈对象的优选条件？
其实说真的，无论是多大，无论是怎么样努力，在父母眼中永远都是，拿着月薪过万的收入也不如一个月入1000的公务员事业编来的体面。。。。。
Last time, a friend told me that her family arranged blind dates for her. She graduated from a famous university, and her major is well-known in the industry. She works in a listed company and has a good income. She was then told that she might not be suitable, given that no member of her family was a party member. Later I learned that all the other family members were party members... I really do not want to ridicule, when even identity has become the preferred condition for you to talk about the object?
In fact, seriously, no matter how big, no matter how hard, in the eyes of parents will always be, with a monthly salary of more than ten thousand income is not as good as a month into 1000 civil servants career made up of decent...
我就是我
是不一样的烟火
——张国荣《我》
只是希望，你们能够真正过上自己想要的生活。你的父母只不过是他们眼中的那些职业可能会有好的未来归属，真正的还是需要你通过自己努力去证明你的选择是对的，无论是爱情还是事业。
趁着年轻，好好工作吧。
趁着年轻，好好创业吧。
趁着年轻，好好生活吧。
I just hope you can really live the life you want. Your parents are only their eyes of those occupation may have a good future home, really need you through your own efforts to prove your choice is right, whether it is love or career.
Work while you are young.
Start a business while you're young.
Live while you are young.
