How to build up self-confidence
As for the way to build up self-confidence, I have to admit that I am so shy when I meet others the first time.
When I was 6 years old, I enter the elementary school. I was so shy on standing at the stage to introduce myself to the classmates. I was afraid that I would be awkward, which could make me so embarrassed. So I spoke less, made friend less ,even moved less in the first semester. However, at the beginning of the next term, one small thing changed me. It was a sunny day, teacher asked us to make a talk about our family. Because of my bashful behavior during last semester, teacher appointed me to say something. This was the second time for me to speak in the public,the first time is self-introduction, i was so nervous about it. On I standing on the stage, I felt my legs were not mine. Even the content that I said in the stage is eliminated from my memory now, I can still memorize what my Chinese teacher told to me. "If you don't try to make anything ，how can you know what you can't do?" From then on, I became more and more confident gradually. I found I was so afraid of mistake, in that I paid more attention to others' comments. Whether people loves you or not is no big deals,and as long as you have attempted to be better, the result is just a result.
In order to built up self-confidence, you should strengthen your own abilities to accomplish one mission on your own. You should work hard to get more qualities, cherish every opportunity to show yourself, learn more from people around you in earnest. Last but not the least,make sure you can treat trivial prosperously. How many roads must a man walk down before you can call him a man？During the journey to become a man, you will fail to do many things. So confront to the failure in a right and then you will be self-confident.
