Look into the past, especially when we were a kid,we seemed to admire our parents very well.No too many fights andcomplications.After all we were a child,is that true?Is that the reason?
Personally,I don't agree with that.
I show you guys a example.
One time,when I was shopping in Walmart.I saw a mother asking her daughter which flavour of cake you prefer.
The little girl pointed at the shelf andsaid:"I wan the cherry one"
However,her mother rejected her choice at once and said:"No,you like the chocolate flavour of cake,l know it"
Well,the little girl stared at the stubborn facial expression on her mother's ,but she didn't dare to fight for it.
Does it mean that the girl is obedient?I am afraid it is not.
The family atmosphere in china,there is generally a terrible problem.The same here,when i was a kid,my father always opposed me to hang out with the boys.And in many aspects, he often put his own thoughts into the first place.Exactly,I had no right to choose what i really liked at that time.
Actually,those experiences indeed had a huge influence on my thought,basically the negative aspect.For a long time,I have been accustomed to following the other's feet or standing behind of them. Cuz l couldn't think of the essence independently.
Luckly,I met a boy one day.He is an extremely rational person.Every time I got into the trouble and hardly lost myself in the feelings,he was always there . He was clam to analyze the essence of matter....
Slowly,I was affected by him.Now,I spend almost one hour reading various resources.Personally,I think reading is a relatively good way to enrich your thoughts.
So, if you are a parent,respect your kid's idea.In addition,if you are an adult, pay attention to reading please.
I am Jolin,a sophomore student.
