什么是目标?
- 目标就是你所想要的东西,也包括让你停止损失的东西(获得一个东西,或者从A状态,变成B状态)
- 目标可以是任何东西,只要你认真想过这个目标的后果;
- 不要混淆目标和欲望,欲望是阻止你实现你的目标的;
1.what are goals
- Goals are what you want.
- Don't confuse the goals and desires .desires are things you want that can prevent you from achieving your goals.
- You can chose anything as your goals as long as you have consider its consequence.
Goals aren’t just those things that you want and don’t have. * * They might also be keeping what you do have, minimizing your rate of loss, or dealing with irrevocable loss. Life will throw you challenges, some of which will seem devastating at the time. Your goal is always to make the best possible choices, knowing that you will be rewarded if you do.
怎么样获得你的目标?
- 学会拒绝一些事情,想清楚你真正想要的是什么;
- 不要把目标设置成你能做到的事情,这回限制你自己;你得有一个信念,如果你思考的深入,执行力高,你能得到任何你想要的东西;
- 设定目标后,你会有足够的时间去制定一个计划,因此不要担心,你设置的目标不可能;
2. how to figure out your goals
- You need to Reject something so that you have time and resource to purse better ones.
- Avoid setting goals based on what you can achieve that will limit yourself , because it will take a considerable time to define the plan and concreted tasks.you need a faith that you can achieve anything if you think creatively and work hard.Even you require to believe the faith is true.
- You can ask believable people to help you.
关于设置目标的一些小技巧
- 不要同时追求太多目标;
- 设置目标,和想清楚你真正想要什么的难度,往往超出你的想象;
3.Something essential
- Don't pursue too much goals at the same time.
- Setting your goals and figure our what you really want is always more difficult than you expect.