If there is a drug that can be taken to promote a perfect abstinence, but at the cost of losing 30 years of your child's life, do you have a psychosis? Would you give your child this medicine? But think, what if you were a principal?
Are you a teacher? This child only stays with you for 3 years. Whether he dies in 30 years or 50 years has nothing to do with you. But how many points he scored this semester, how many points in his secondary school and college entrance exams, and what high school and college he would attend, are things that have a clear relationship with your prize money, your performance, and your future. What would you do? That's ten percent, a fraction of a million people. So did you find out? As a parent, a lot of times your position is naturally different from that of the teacher and the school, and it can't be the same.
Of course I'm going to use this example extremely. But the truth is often more fantastic than the story. You don't keep asking me why my children lie flat, mess up, don't learn, become bored and don't go to school. The fact of the matter is that a lot of times your child's vitality, creativity, passion for life, these longterm things. Just because it does not meet those tenacious requirements, and it doesn't serve the immediate interests of teachers and schools, it has been denied and oppressed. For example, if I say, teacher, that I ask my child to copy this text ten thousand times, is there any chance of improving him by ten points? Okay, without a point, is there any chance of getting a point or a point.
Then I'll have to let him copy for that 0. 1. As for how much energy it would consume him, how much sleep it would affect him, how many eyes it would hurt him, and whether it would make him anxious, depressed, and lose hope in life for a long time, that's my business. So do you understand that? Your parents should be smart. Don't shout about school cooperation every day. The children are going to be overwhelmed by school. Your child is trying to persuade him to obey the school orders. I repeat, a lot of the time school arrangements don't matter whether your child dies or dies in the future, he only thinks about the school's interests. So you have a scale in your own mind, and see that the child is not in the right condition, and stop quickly. For schools, your children are not even one in a thousand. But he's here with you. he's 100 percent. During the New Year, many relatives and friends gathered together to talk. Any parent whose child was over 10 years old did not have to worry about it. They always said that their grades were not good, but the key was to rebel and disobey and lock the door. Some of those kids I had an impression of before. I remember them being pretty good, and they seemed to be doing okay. Of course it was before when I was a kid. That's fine.
The parents shook their heads as soon as they spoke. Several asked me, "You're a professional in this field. Can you give us a word on whether the child is still alive or not?" If even you say there's no help, then I'm not counting on it. After junior high school, simply go to high school for two years. So I've been doing this for a few days, actually talking to those kids, and talking I knew the problem.
First of all, let me tell parents that your children are not rebellious. The parents said that this was not rebellious, that they locked the door every day, and that he didn't listen to us. I said you'd never seen a child so disobedient. How could you betray that look? You didn't dare to look at it. He looks at you like he looks at a foe. Well, the best way your kids look at you is to annoy you, annoy you and don't understand him. That's all. The second time, let me explain to him why you're a kid who's turned out like this. Didn't you get really good grades before? Oh, right? Aren't people really obedient? How did junior high school suddenly change? It's not that he's changed. I told their parents that when you used to study, you didn't study properly. We grew up together, and neither one knew each other. No one could understand your children because your grades were small. Your son, he's working a lot harder than when you were a kid. So his grades were 10,000 times better when he was a kid than when you were a kid. The problem is that things in junior high are hard. He won't. He wont. His grades get worse. When they get worse, he's in a bad mood. And because you've had poor interest grades since you were a child, you don't even know that things in junior high are many times harder than in elementary school. Because it seems to you that it's all the same difficult, and you don't understand it anyway. So you have a hard time understanding that it's because things get harder that they become the way they are. You can only think about some reasons for his mess. Is it early love, playing on his phone, playing a game, or being disobedient? These things you think of are simply funny to kids. People used to be great students in elementary school, but now things are just getting harder, and they have gone from great students to shoddy students. That's not you, who grew up as a schoolboy. These questions you posted to him at the subjective end here. Aren't you making a fool of that? At least the child to see this is ah, so he refused to talk to you, talk to you tired, so he locked the door, locking the door is not treason, poor grades, but not the cause and effect relationship of treason make upside down. It was clear that his grades had become worse after the things in junior high school had changed, because of the wrong method of study. And because you don't understand, people make smart faces and squirm every day, so they bother people to visit us and appear rebellious. So where's the problem with this kid? Even if there is a problem, it should be started at the source, as a matter of learning a method. When you meet someone who really knows the way, tell him the tricks. The child learns the tricks and grades rise. Is it back to primary school bullying? Isn't he in a better mood, then? Isn't your mood okay, too? Don't you have any problems at home? At this time I found that the parents were all staying there. The problem is that we don't know the way. Where to find someone who knows the way? I said how you get so stupid the more you live. Don't the really great people be far away and have their hearts right in front of you?
