Good love has something to do with a person's maturity. A good man, he must be sound personality, mature and kind and beautiful. Both men and women.
美好的爱情与一个人的成熟有关。一个好男人，他必须是健全的个性，成熟，善良和美丽。男人和女人都是。
The root of all human suffering is anger at his own incompetence. The contradictions and troubles of life always exist, and if we are not aware of our own problems and correct them effectively, it will be impossible to solve them fundamentally. There are always people who deal with the same problems and situations better. If troubles persist, they are not wise enough. Whether you are satisfied or not, in fact, the present situation basically matches you, and if you are good to another dimension, it will change naturally. Unprincipled love that only young children need, no one else needs. Love is out of line, harm to others, harm to yourself, love with distance and principle is healthier and more relaxed. Money is important! The ability to make money is very important! Such as health, knowledge, morality, contacts. The premise that the problem can be solved is that both sides jointly respect the facts, but the facts that everyone sees are in fact only a certain angle of the facts, the differences in angles exist objectively, and contradictions between the two sides are bound to arise, so there is no need to seek common ground. In this way, to respect the facts is to respect differences and recognize differences, that is, there is no trouble. Love yourself, a little more, a little more. May we be healthier all the way! The ability to be happy is stronger! My dedication and understanding in my family life has gone too far, so that my normal sense of grievance has become invincible and fragile, harming others, harming themselves and harming the family. It took a week to find the root cause of the disease, recovered today, sleepless, summed up as above, shared. 2020.4.19.03:06
所有人类痛苦的根源都是对自己无能的愤怒。生活中的矛盾和烦恼总是存在的，如果我们不能认识到自己存在的问题并加以有效纠正，就不可能从根本上解决这些问题。总是有人能更好地处理同样的问题和情况。如果麻烦不断，他们就不够聪明。不管你满意不满意，其实现在的情况和你基本匹配，如果你对另一个维度好，它就会自然而然地改变。无原则的爱，只有年幼的孩子需要，其他人都不需要。爱是越轨的，伤害别人的，伤害自己的，有距离、有原则的爱更健康、更轻松。钱很重要！赚钱的能力非常重要！比如健康、知识、道德、人脉。问题能够解决的前提是双方共同尊重事实，但大家看到的事实其实只是事实的某个角度，角度上的分歧是客观存在的，双方矛盾必然会出现，没有必要求同存异。如此一来，尊重事实就是尊重差异、承认差异，也就是没有麻烦。爱你自己，再多一点，再多一点。愿我们一路健康！快乐的能力更强了！我对家庭生活的执着和理解走得太远，让我正常的委屈意识变得无坚不摧、脆弱不堪，损人害己、损人不利己。花了一周时间才找到病根，今天痊愈了，不眠不休，总结如上，分享。2020.4.19.03：06
