Who You Are

We are influenced much

Once it's said the Nazis had a crazy plan. They wanted to clone Hitler, then the Hitler could revive the Nazi and Germany.

It's really absurd. Even though they could clone a new Hitler, how could they recover  the process of  growth of original Hitler? Was it possible to clone his family members, neighborhood, his friends, his classmates and recover all things he met? All these made him to be the person who he was. If not, they only had a clone, not the person.who could be the leader of the Nazi.

So that everybody and everything we met would have influence on us. They all shape us and make us to be who we are.

Then who is the most important influence on the young adults, family members or friends?

I think the family members are the most important influence on us, especially our parents. After we were born, we followed the way they lived, the way they spoke, the way they treated others, even the way they treated themselves. Some people think friends are the most important influence on young adults. In fact, it's because the original family didn't give him what he needed when he was very young. Then he looked for what he needed from the people who could offer what his lack of was. Those people became his friends later.

So socialists say most problems of juvenile were caused by their original family, at least we can find out the source from his original family. It doesn't mean his parents are criminals or they instigate their children to commit crime. It's because when their children  couldn't get enough love or the sense of security, or they were hurt , they would look for compensation outside. If they did it in a wrong way, he would make some trouble or even committed crime. It seemed his bad friends influenced him. In fact, the source came from his original family. The influence from his original family was in his blood, in his habit and in his thoughts. But most of us aren't aware of that.

Now we know  parents are the most important people to their children. If you live a happy life, it mostly means you are lucky to meet good and responsible parents, they gave all what you needed  when you grew up. If parents found your children had some problems in their behavior or  minds, just be careful to find out what your children need, you didn't offer enough things to them when they were young. Don't scold your children that fast, maybe you yourself made it. Because you influenced them the most.

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