你知道爱情长什么样吗？
你也许在电视剧电影小说中看到过，甜如蜜糖，虐似鞭心，热烈处若酷暑的火山喷发，冷淡处如寒冬的冰川暴雪，平淡时宛若清水见底，情浓时势比连体婴儿，要是有人问起它的模样，你心里或许知道，脑子里或许迷糊，感觉上能分辨得出，语言上描绘不清。
你也许已经经历过，你也许正在经历过，或许正企盼着，即使被它的外衣欺骗伤害到体无完肤你还是会奋不顾身飞蛾扑火，可你想过你为之赴汤蹈火的爱情是什么样子吗？
来听听这几首歌吧，说不定你就知道了。
1、love story
这首歌来源于一个凄美的爱情故事，是1970年代奥斯卡获奖电影《爱情故事》的插曲，有Andy Williams演唱。富家子弟爱上独立自强的女大学生，违背自己父亲的旨意两人结婚了，历经重重困难，直到后来女主死于癌症。歌词曲调非常优美，略带伤感。但是不管是独唱还是男女对唱，都能体会到对另一半的肯定及自己感受到的爱意。
歌词如下：
Barry Manilow - Where Do I Begin (Theme from Love Story)
Where do I begin to tell the story
Of how great a love can be
The sweet love story that is older than the sea
The simple truth about the love she brings to me
Where do I start
With her first hello
She gave new meaning to this empty world of mine
They'll never be another love another time
She came into my life and made the living fine
She fills my heart
She fills my heart with very special things
Angel songs and wild imaginings
She fill my soul
with so much love
That any where I go I'm never lonely
With her around who could be lonely
I reach for her hand
She'salways there
How long does it last
Can love be measured by the hours in a day
I have no answers now
But this much I can say
I know I'll need her until the stars all burn away
And she'll be there
How long does it last
Can love be measured by the hours in a day
I have no answers now
But this much I can say
I know I'll need her until the stars all burn away
And she'll be there
我非常喜欢这首歌的原因不是因为它曲调好听，不是因为它出名，而是因为它描绘的那种爱情模式是非常健康的。歌坛关于爱情的歌曲多不胜数，很多表达伤心的，表达迷惑分手的，或者他不爱我那种不甘心的，也有很多表述爱情的甜蜜的，极少能像这首一样吧爱情的真谛和意义说出来。
爱，不是用物质财富填充她整个生活，当然那样也会更好；爱，不是用甜言蜜语伪装真实生活，当然这样早晚会被戳穿；爱，不是你争我吵寻求刺激，当然那样激情早晚不再澎湃。爱应该是我在你身边，我能成为最好的自己，而离开你，我依旧是我自己。在爱的时候，我们是两个独立的个体相互包容在一起，当只剩下一个人的时候，那个人还能承载着双方对于未来的期待和向往好好生活下去，就像两个人还在一起一样。
爱，在一起时候甜蜜，不在一起的时候，照样甜蜜。
2、Never had a dream come true
这首歌非常老，来自7clue的单曲，我这个人比较喜欢文字表达的最直白的意思，我是这样翻译这句歌词的大意，没遇见你之前，我从没实现过任何一个梦。当然这个梦还是和爱情相关。
歌词如下：
Everybody's got something 每个人都有一些
They had to leave behind 被迫舍弃的东西。
One regret from yesterday 昨天的某个遗憾
That just seems to grow with time 今天越来越难以释怀。
There's no use looking back or wondering 回头何用，假设何用
How it could be now or might have been 假设终究只是一场空
All this I know but still I can't find ways To let you go 这些，我全明白，但我无法和你分开。
I never had a dream come true 从未有过梦想成真的感觉
Till the day that I found you 直到我那天发现了你
Even though I pretend that I've moved on 虽然，我假装毫不在乎朝前走，
You'll always be my baby 你却永远是我的最爱。
I never found the words to say 我的心里话无法用语言表达
You're the one I think about each day 你是我朝思暮想的人
And I know no matter where life takes me to 我知道无论生活把我带到何方，
A part of me will always be with you，yeah 我的一部分永远与你同在
Somewhere in my memory 在我记忆的某个地方
I've lost all sense of time（ah-ha，ha-ha）时间已不复存在…
And tomorrow can never be 似乎永远没有了明天
'cause yesterday is all that fills my mind 因为昨天占据了我全部的思想
There's no use looking back or wondering 回头何用，假设何用
How it should be now or might have been 假设终究只是一场空
All this I know but still I can't find ways To let you go 这些，我全明白，但我无法和你分开
I never had a dream come true 从未有过梦想成真的感觉
'Till the day that I found you 直到我那天发现了你
Even though I pretend that I've moved on 虽然，我假装毫不在乎朝前走，
You'll always be my baby 你却永远是我的最爱。
I never found the words to say 我的心里话无法用语言表达
You're the one I think about each day 你是我朝思暮想的人
And I know no matter where life takes me to 我知道无论生活把我带到何方，
A part of me will always be 我的一部分永远与你同在
You'll always be the dream that fills my head 你永远是我心中全部的梦想
Yes you will，say you will 是的，你就是，说吧你就是，你知道
You know you will，oh baby 你就是，噢宝贝
You'll always be the one I know I'll never forget 我知道你是我永远不会忘记的恋人
It's no use looking back or wondering 回头或是假设都无用
Because love is a strange and funny thing 因为爱是一件奇怪而有趣的东西
No matter how I try and try 无论我如何努力又努力
I just can't say goodbye，no，no，no，no 我就是无法说分离 ，不，不，不，不
I never had a dream come true 从未有过梦想成真的感觉
'Till the day that I found you 直到我那天发现了你
Even though I pretend that I've moved on 虽然，我假装毫不在乎朝前走，
You'll always be my baby 你却永远是我的最爱。
I never found the words to say （to say）我的心里话无法用语言表达
You're the one I think about each day（each day）你是我朝思暮想的人
And I know no matter where love takes me to 我知道无论爱把我带到何方，
A part of me will always be 我的一部分永远与你同在
A part of me will always be with you，ooh 我的一部分永远和你同在，噢……
很多人疑惑自己想要个什么样的另一半，当他找到了会欣喜若狂，会庆幸感激，那种幸福感
